@katestar You pine for the rest of your life. You watch as the one you love lives happily with someone else, never remembering you exist, or caring that you love him/her because you're not even in their orbit. You live in self-inflicted misery for all your days. Yes, that is what you're supposed to do Kate. That is your lot in life.
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It’s really tough. We’ve all been there. Try to move on and know that you’re lucky to have loved at all.
Find someone else that you can have. Easier said than done sometimes, but this is the best solution.
Do whatever you can to get over it. Distract yourself with other men. Stay busy.
You move on. If he's not into me I just stop talking to him and move on.
I usually just stop loving them. Like I cut ties and move on
You don't you just move on not because you want to but because you have to and just realize everything we want in life we can't have
Turning your attention and life to something just as amazing.
You have to put it in God's hands to work it out for you
List their negatives and all the reasons why are you better without them. In short start hating them instead.
i go to gym and grow new pecs so I can love a different someone I can't have
Happens to all of us.
Get over it.
Move on with YOUR life.
It's very difficult but eventually you will move on and find someone you can actually have.
It's apparent that most commenting here have never lost a true soul mate to death. You just learn to live with it
I’d try not to get depressed at any moment thinking of that person. I’d just admire from a distance.
only incels, simps, fatboys have this problem
i still struggle with it been in love with her for almost 5 years wishing and longing i could hug her just hug her
When I figure it out I'll let you know
You move on
Nope.
@katestar yup
No way that I'm not going to do it
@katestar You pine for the rest of your life. You watch as the one you love lives happily with someone else, never remembering you exist, or caring that you love him/her because you're not even in their orbit. You live in self-inflicted misery for all your days. Yes, that is what you're supposed to do Kate. That is your lot in life.
No. He's single. He doesn't have a girlfriend. He's a actor.
@katestar I was being facetious. So what, if anything, do you intend to do?
I am not going to stop. Until I can feel that I wanted him.
@katestar you know thats crazy girlfriend stuff right? thats how that guy will likely see you?
That my guy friend will come to his senses.
@katestar not gonna happen...
What are you talking about?
@katestar thats obsessive behavior... i'm wondering if you stalk him too...
I won't.
You can love someone without conditions.
I wish someone would love me who can't have me 🥺