He's hiding you from someone else that he has on his profile. Could be another girl, friends or family he doesn't want others to know about you. Since your in a long distance relationship, he could be talking to other women and don't want them to see you on his profile. My husband and I added each other and we don't even get on Facebook anymore, it was during the time we were dating. I never saw it as big deal, you just hit add friend button and that it. I feel like some guys turned into a big deal because deep down inside some of them just weren't ready to claim you and rhe relationship officially in front of others, especially online.
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Specifically in a LDR, you should have your partner on social media. Could be a warning sign that he may not want you to see what he gets up to. Your boyfriend should WANT to have you on his profile too. Yes, some people aren't active social media posters and it shouldn't be a tool to judge how someone feels about you, but in a LDR, it does help.
I'd ask him about it in a casual convo. Give you some peace of mind too.
Him not being willing to be friends on social media is sus.
While it may very well be reasonable and not malicious, if you two are to ever be serious he also can't hide you away. This is one of those things where he will just have to explain himself and then give in anyway.
I think it makes sense to ask him if he’s cool with that before you do anything. Just tell him that you think it makes more sense to add him, now that the situation has changed. I love dating women who are comfortable voicing ideas like that.
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He's hiding you, someone, or his activities online. Doesn't he care if you're doing the same to him? Definitely sus.
If you both agreed with a serious relationship, I will definitely find it as a red flag and initiate a break up. If he comes back, make him prove that he really loves you.
Someone can definitely take advantage of this situation, especially if you're on LDR.
Hiding shit! Any guy I have dated added me right away so to not add you means he is hiding something and I’d most definitely can be a relationship or it can be a past one that’s not done yet. Keep your guard up or just drop him.
He's either seeing someone else, or wants to, or is looking. Or there may be some other reason he is hiding you, or, is hiding info about his life from you. None of which is good! This is like having a double life!
I don’t want to be brutal but it’s a sign. One of my close friends had same issue and later she found out that dude was cheating on her.. Talk to him and ask him reasons behind his concerns
Add him. My ex boyfriend had the same stupid rule and I thought aw he really cares about us and doesn’t want social media to come between us. No it was because he was sleeping with another girl the entire time and didn’t want me to find out.
He's hiding shit. Y do I have a PIN on my cell phone? I've been married 9 years, but I still talk to an ex sometimes.. If ur b/f is really serious, he wouldn't be hiding anything from u.
He doesn't want someone to see he has a girlfriend, probably his other girlfriend.
"I still wanna know his interaction with everyone"... such bullshit... translation: I want to make sure he isn't talking to females...
usually when this happens its often because they have another girlfrined or wife.
Sussy... He either wants to hide himself from you or wants to hide You from others. It's a red flag for me.
Why. So you can monitor his social interactions with people and his online behavior? Why is that important for your relationship?
Its probably due to the fact he is hiding something
Maybe he is hiding something or he has a secret girlfriend on social media
Maybe doesn't do social media. Or he wants his love life private and just his business which is understandable
If he doesn’t want you on his social media he’s got something to hide 100%
Sounds like he is wanting to hide you. Often times LDR don't work out sadly
Beware, something 🤔 is Amis.
Is he involved with another woman? Is his family against you? Lots of potential possibilities.i guess he is not that serious with you. seems to me a true partner would not mind. Still up to sketchy shit perhaps
He hiding shit from you , cheat or scared that another girls gonna see you there
For me that would be a big red flag that he might be cheating on me.
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