Women will cry and fight for the relationship during it, but men only do this after the relationship is over. True?

[Anonymous]

I've seen it happening time and time again. A couple is having a lot of problems, fights, issues and the woman will want to talk all the time, express her feelings, try to work things out and be called 'crazy, annoying, to emotional'. She will cry, be in a very bad mood all the time, and the man will wonder "why does she behave this way? Why can't she just be happy and calm like she was in the beginning?".

Once she gives up and leaves, the man will feel at peace for a moment, but after some time, he will realize that she was just trying to fix the relationship and will go after her, sometimes even beg for her back.. That's when he wants to talk things out.

What do you think about this and why does this happen? Note that it's not all man or woman, but this happens in most cases.

[MrOracle]

Smart men aren't ever going to argue with a woman to try to make her stay, because if she doesn't want to be with you, there's nothing you can do to keep her.

Men, decent men anyway, work hard and make sacrifices for their woman every day, but if that's not enough, nothing ever will be.

Men rarely change - if your man is something that you don't like today, he was almost always that way from the beginning, so if it was that important to you, you should have chosen differently back then. If you ignore red flags because you think you can fix him, YOU are a fool.

And if you expect your man to chase you down and try to convince you to stay, you are also a fool. He likely won't, and if he does, you will never respect him again. Smart men understand this.

My woman is free to leave anytime, but once she does, there's no coming back.

[Googlemyahoo]

Was opposite for me. Long term relationship out of Highschool she went away to college. We never fought got along fine.

Her school was 2 hours away I brought all these supplies and food her parents asked me to bring. It was Friday after the first week. Park my car and I’m walking towards residence & some girl approaches says she’s my girlfriend roomie and she’s fucking another guy already.

Only thing my girlfriend complained about was her roommate so I figured she was fucking with me. I in not so kind words politely enquired if it was the truth she squeaked out it was. I asked her to go inform my girlfriend I arrived and was leaving.

Walked back to my car popped trunk and threw all the shit her parents asked me to bring in the parking lot. Then left.

Saturday back home first thing in morning I get sobbing apologizing ex girlfriend asking for another chance.

[Phoenix98]

Gonna be honest with you I don’t really fight with my partners. I don’t even think there’s been a single relationship I’ve bern in where I’ve fought with a partner.

i prefer to just communicate calming I’d there's an issue rather then fighting or crying.

[PositiveNote]

I think you pretty much have it completely stated. Obviously, not men or women are 100% alike on anything, but you definitely have it right on that.

[Guy13]

We don't speak the same language. There is all kinds of research and books on. Women from Venus Men from Mars is good place to start.

[In_Trance]

I don't think you can generalize this

[goodgirlsteven]

Yes!