That doesn't happen. No one outside my family has told me they loved me. And I KNOW my family loves me. I guess I don't really NEED to be told by someone that they love me. They either show it or they don't. And if they don't I wouldn't believe it anyhow. Most people lie and tell you what they think you want to hear. I always assume I'm being lied to 50% of the time. It's how I avoid being disappointed by people, low expectations. 🤣
Like is one thing, love is another. You can't love someone who doesn't love you back. Love is reciprocal. Anyone who loves someone that doesn't love them back has boundary issues as far as i'm concerned. There are very few people I just don't like and I can't imagine those people who I dislike liking me because I'm not subtle about letting them know when they're not welcome when they overstep thier bounds with me.
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Honesty is Always the best policy. If you do not feel the same way you need to let that person know!
I awkwardly apologize and say "sorry, but i just don't feel the same way about you"
I will tell them right away gently of course so I don't lead them on. It's not fair to them..
that’s really scary, esp when you feel really bad and u don’t wanna give the person the “your not good enough vibe.”
I wouldn't let it get to that point unless the sex was really good despite me not liking them.
They want to experience if you can satisfy their sexual hunger to fantasy or fetish.
Ask them what they will like to do to you?
Sorry buddy, No one says too me, I don’t know how to respond to back 🙇♂️,
It's been so long ago, usually I got the short end of the stick
You’d better be completely honest with them
Never had this problem.
What if someone says they love you but you don’t feel the same?
That doesn't happen. No one outside my family has told me they loved me. And I KNOW my family loves me.
I guess I don't really NEED to be told by someone that they love me. They either show it or they don't. And if they don't I wouldn't believe it anyhow. Most people lie and tell you what they think you want to hear. I always assume I'm being lied to 50% of the time. It's how I avoid being disappointed by people, low expectations. 🤣
I guess it would only be a problem if I really felt they loved me. And I didn't feel the same way. And I've never had this happen.
So if it does?
Like is one thing, love is another. You can't love someone who doesn't love you back. Love is reciprocal. Anyone who loves someone that doesn't love them back has boundary issues as far as i'm concerned.
There are very few people I just don't like and I can't imagine those people who I dislike liking me because I'm not subtle about letting them know when they're not welcome when they overstep thier bounds with me.
How bout those Eagles?
Thank you. That is such a kind thing to say.
I don't know I always found it polite to say something like I lust you.🤓
"Wut? Why?"
Just accept it, say nothing.
I just say I love you music choices
"Thank you".
Other bird should have said "I didn't ask". 😂
So u tryna fuck or nah
Lol... I bet they say yes too. 😁
@spartan55 if they don't I ain't tever talking to them again hahaha!
Say thankyou 😂