When you sense your relationship coming to an end do you wait until it unfolds or do you just move on?

[Finchie40]

When my marriage was on the rocks and my gut instinct knew something was off , even though I was torn up inside I stood by praying for the best until I busted her having an affair and that was my final straw , I felt like I had Sucker written all over my head that I tolerated the abuse and shit I went through , Now when it comes to dating I don’t tolerate shit anymore , Does that make me a bad person? At times I feel I can’t get into another committed relationship because I now I am set in my ways , How do I fully trust someone again? I know all relationships have their ups and downs but I have a harder time now trusting so I feel I am better off not really wasting a girls time , considering I feel all girls are selfish and only really care about themselves, I pray that there is a girl out there that can finally sweep me off my feet but most girls want to be swept off their feet , so I don’t know what to do anymore really , I want to experience true love and someone that can honestly be faithful to me but so many people lie

[Anonymous]

i went through something like that this summer , i though this girl was all that , but things just weren't right and never seemed to go in the direction i wanted them to and couldn't figure out why. it just sort of dragged on until the end of summer when she returned to school and i didn't see her at her work anymore.. i kind of wanted to move on and meet other people but couldn't get over my urge to see her in person.

maybe i regret that i didn't figure out sooner what was really going on with her

[Tonya2020]

No you fight and you say as much as you can you do everything that you can do to try and make your partner remember why you fell in love in the first place I was in similar situation and if I’ve given up I never would have the last seven amazing years I’ve had with my now husband of 16 years and our sex life which was phenomenal before our slump is now more amazing and I didn’t even think that was a possible and we are connected like no two people on this planet because we know we stuck through it and help each other out neither of us ever cheated I don’t know if I could’ve done it if we did

[Juxtapose]

Yeah.. when you get that gut feeling it is fucking over when does it ever turn out well?

I have quite a long time in between dates though so I hold on for as long as I can stand.