What role do you believe a woman plays in a man's life (Committed Relationship)?

[DoctorSex]

The reason I go by the name DoctorSex, is because the primary education of all humans used to be the Principles of masculine and feminine energies. Everything in our little planet was formed with these two energies working on concert with each other.

Recently I've asked 20 or so ladies to define what the role of a woman (feminine energy) is in a man's (masculine energy) life, as well as men!

I think this should be the fundamental question we all ask potential partners because it paints a vivid picture in how that person constructs their internal world.

So ladies, put aside any fears :-D, educate us in what role you believe the woman plays in the life of a man in a commited relationship?

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Lliam]

Femininity. That's why I'm with a woman in particular.

The way women look, sound, and feel is a miracle.
I love the way they present themselves.
The way they move and act fills me with joy.

Beyond that, I love having a trusted best friend to hang out, go places, do things, and cuddle with, and confide in.

In marriage, I value my wife's intellect, perceptiveness, work ethic, inquisitiveness, open-mindedness, tenderness, sense of humor, and complete loyalty. We work as a team, always supporting each other.

[DoctorSex]

Are men not a miracle? .. asking for a friend.

[Lliam]

In the way they look, sound and feel? Yes, to women and homos.

[bamesjond0069]

Cook

Clean

Make and take care of kids

Sexually please him

Obey

[CA4444]

Mmh I think the woman will be closely related to his vitality deep down… as far as I’m concerned I want to be my best self of course and be very positive, and just be there for him

[DoctorSex]

Vitality! I do love when comments from you pop up. You tend to have a unique take on a subjects that cut to the core :).

[DoctorSex]

*subject that cuts to the core x

[Raphaëlle]

Partner in life, wife, maybe mother to common children, friend, supporter and so on.

[Guy13]

Peer, lover, supporter, and a joint lifetime of Doing snd growing.

[MzAsh]

Partner in life. Lover, supporter, muse, guide.

[DoctorSex]

A woman's role is to guide a fully grown man?

Kind regards,

[MzAsh]

Sometimes, yes. When you’ve been in a relationship long enough, you’ll understand that there are some areas where the woman will be more experienced and competent and sometimes the man will be. You’ll lead according to your strengths and weaknesses.

[Jamie05rhs]

@MzAsh 💯. You are a wise woman.

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05rhs you're still a virgin waiting for marriage correct? What makes you so confident that she's right might I ask?

Kind regards,

[MzAsh]

Thank you, Jamie. 😊

[Jamie05rhs]

@MzAsh You're welcome! :)

[Jamie05rhs]

@DoctorSex Because I've been studying relationships my entire life.

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05rhs one can study the violin and still never know a thing about it until you play the violin. I wish this with the greatest of respects brother. But as a man who is celibate, you come across as a religious man to me.

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05rhs * I say this with the greatest of respects

[Jamie05rhs]

@DoctorSex Yes; I am religious. I am a person of faith. And that guides my worldview.
It's not the only resource I glean from, though.

[MzAsh]

Doctor Sex, I’m a certified relationship consultant, and I’ve maintained my marriage for over 15 years. I don’t claim to know everything. I just share my point of view from my experiences, observations, and learnings.

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05rhs got it, thank you for clarifying. Then can you kindly provide me with the passage that informs a man of faith that a womans responsibility or role is to guide her husband?

[DoctorSex]

@MzAsh thank you for your opinion. You don't sound very religious to me. Who would be your authority on relationships in that case?

[DoctorSex]

@MzAsh I mentiom this because you used words like miss which has greek goddess connotations. Coupling this with the ideology of guiding your husband in some regards, has me wondering whether your authority has greek mythology leanings or some other?

[Jamie05rhs]

@DoctorSex
Genesis 2:18
Ecclesiastes 4:9-11

[MzAsh]

I have no affiliation.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DoctorSex Though I just want to say that you don't necessarily have to have an "authority."
It is possible to use evidence and research to determine courses of action to take in relationships. There is an entire field of social science dedicated to this.

[Jamie05rhs]

(The science generally backs up the Christian viewpoint, though.)

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05rhs thank you. Please keep in mind that I'm not attacking you. I'm a man who loves a healthy debate, to challenge viewpoints as well as to have mine challenged. It's an important part of self development. So I welcome any challenge.

Gen 2:18 Then God said: “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.”

So according to this passage, a woman's role is a helper, not guide. If I am an employer and I hire an employee to help me with tasks, that's exactly what I'm doing. Asking some to help me with tasks, not to guide me in how to run my business.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-11
Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?

Infavt I read the whole chapter, this has nothing to do with a woman?

If nothing else, the Bible speaks most commonly about the husband's role and a wife's role. This is one of the clearest morals in the Bible and I don't believe you've proven that God asked a woman to guide her husband. The Bible explicitly mentions for a woman to not be a teacher of men. That the husband is the head of his wife and Christ is the head of the husband.

Guidance is a masculine responsibility according to the bible. Is the Bible not your authority? Feel free not to answer but I have to respectfully disagree with you as you haven't made a strong case, and Frankly blasphemous!

Kind regards,

[DoctorSex]

@MzAsh got it. So you are the highest moral authority in your life.

I ask these types of questions In order to get a picture of the person I'm speaking with so I can make sense of where their views originate from. So as a relationship consultant you're taking the position as ghe moral authority in the lives of others in regards to relationships, would I be right in concluding this?

And if so. Coupled with the idea of being a Muse. A Greek mythological term denoting a Goddess, would it be correct if I was to say. You consider yourself to be God?

Thank you for your comment.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DoctorSex I don't mean to cause any personal offense, sir, but clearly the Bible is not your authority, either. Since you're presenting yourself to the public as a "sex doctor.". ... Unless your username is just some kind of silly joke.

[Jamie05rhs]

And a muse means someone who inspires another.

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05 no offense taken at all my good man!

Sex originates from the Latin word "sexus" The original meaning was "division". Ergo the division or difference between men and women.
But In truth my actual names Elijah:)

My authority is the most high who reigns supreme. He passes down scriptures by way of enlightenment to men.
The Bible is an authority and one I respect deeply. However there are many different authorities and one only need travel to explore them all.

Malachi 4: 5-6

Kind regards,

Elijah

[DoctorSex]

@Jamie05rhs

Definition of muse

1 capitalized : any of the nine sister goddesses in Greek mythology

Copied and pasted from source: Merriam-webster

[Jamie05rhs]

Pleasure to meet you, Elijah. :)

@DoctorSex I suppose the word "muse" has taken on a modern colloquial meaning that is much different from the original definition.

[FilmGuy93]

Women are a compliment and fluourish to a man's lifestyle

[Anonymous]

I don't set up any strict roles for girls in my life. They can do as they please just like me.

[BJP21]

As an equal. In anything and everything pertaining life, love, and commitment.

[18Uma21]

To make him look good in public

[DoctorSex]

Mmm and how does a lady accomplish that?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Best friend who I do everything with.

[Iron_Man]

Everything

[18Uma21]

Best man in the world!

[Anony3942]

His best friend 🥰