My boyfriend was creeping me out and I broke up, were my reasons fair?

[Anonymous]

He first started demanding that every time I leave and it's not related to work... to call him every 30 minutes. I never gave him a reason to distrust me so I found that strange. Why would anyone need to constantly call their partners that much after just stepping out to go to the supermarket for instance or if you already informed you're over at grandma's? One time I didn't feel like doing it and he got upset (he screamed and said horrible things), practically wanted to break up and refuse to speak to me for almost a week. He reacted as if I had cheated or committed some foul or something.

Then he started getting upset because I didn't put likes nor hearts on every single story, news or things he posts on facebook. He started saying ''Oh so now I guess I'm gonna have to punish you for this by not wishing you a b-day, you forget my post so I guess I'll forget your b-day''.

I blew up and said ''You know what **** you. You're creeping me out and sounding controlling. Get out of my life.'' Were my reasons fair?

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And why would a partner feel obligated to put likes on every single thing you post on your facebook? I'm not on facebook all day long and sometimes I'm just very busy.

[slatyb]

1. You don't need a reason to break up. If you aren't happy, end it.
2. "He first started demanding that every time I leave and it's not related to work... to call him every 30 minutes." That's an absurd demand. No one with any self-esteem would tolerate that. You were right to break up.

[Asker]

I did ended it. Now I need to relax and take a break from the dating scene for the meantime. I don't feel ready right now to start a new relationship, not yet.

[KrakenAttackin]

I am willing to bet his side of the story is very different.

[Asker]

It is exactly as I wrote. My parents and friends didn't like him either.
I've seen your name before. You're an anti-woman, always bias, always siding with just your gender. I'm willing to bet if a woman got legitimate raped, you would be posting the same thing too and saying ''I am willing to bet you provoked him''. Your types are sad.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... if no one else liked him and he was this awful, why do you need validation from GAG?

[Asker]

I needed to vent I guess. Yes no one liked him, yes I broke up but this is still fresh to me. I need a moment to take a break and relax before getting back into the dating world again.

[BrookeAZ90]

I only had to read the first sentence of this to know that it was fair. Good for you.

[Asker]

Thank you. My parents and friends are actually happy I've broken up. They didn't like him.

[YoHoeRose]

Sounds like he was cheating to me and trying to keep you from finding out

[Asker]

Probably but it doesn't matter at this moment. I was unhappy and felt stressed out in that relationship.

[YoHoeRose]

I'm glad your out of the situation!