My wife will never make an oath to be with me for life, should I take that as a red flag?

[Anonymous]

She assured me that she cannot do that after we were watching someone doing so to her man.
Does that sound suspicious relationship wise
Or am I being paranoid?

[Anonymous]

An oath can’t even work between you and god.
It’s all words , actions are more important then some spoken words. Blah blah blah blah I love you. Then they make breakfast only for them later they don’t give you an apple slice lol.
See how she is towards you , oath is a lie.
Also what if it’s you ~ who can change the mind and break the oath ? You know people change right that can be you. Stop acting you are full of good morals

[WhitneySnow]

Dude that’s a huge red flag if you guys are married

[Asker]

Yes we are married

[WhitneySnow]

Then yes. Major red flag.

[Asker]

I also felt so, so what can I do? For real I cannot proceed with such a woman, I may console her but I may be messed up in the future, right?

[WhitneySnow]

I mean I’m not saying divorce her or anything but talk to her. Find out why she feels that way.

[Asker]

I assure you, she won't say it but suspect there's something,

[OlderAndWiser]

Does she offer any explanation?

[Asker]

Nop she doesn't and she's not willing to

[OlderAndWiser]

Huge red flag.

[Asker]

I bet I should emotionally park my stuff and prepare to leave

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe you should give her a heads up warning.

[Asker]

I doubt she even care

[OlderAndWiser]

Probably not, but if you do it, then you won't look back and wonder if the outcome would have been different if you had made a final effort to reach her.

[Anonymous]

She sounds smart. I would make that oath either.

[Asker]

You lost me, smart?