Do you think about past sexual partners…?

[Anonymous]

1. Do you think about past sexual partners?

2. Do you snoop on social media?

3. Would you look them up and friend request them years later while in a happy relationship?

4. How would you feel if your partner of 5 years friend requested someone they were “casually seeing” for a year 12 years previously?

Acceptable

Not acceptable

[mermaidcancermoon]

I have thought about one past sex partner but only because I missed the sex. He explored me like no other. a lot of guys are lazy.

But anyway nope, im the rare breed that doesn't stalk exes. I have no interest in friending them, knowing what theyre doing, or them studying my relationship. Im quite loyal, never cheated.

Wandering hearts, mind, and eyes are a dealbreaker for me.

[curlyfirecracker]

No. No. No. No. As a happily married woman, nope.

[Asker]

If you were happy but not married?

Does the fact your married make a big difference?

How would you feel if your partner or husband did this?

[curlyfirecracker]

If I was happy, I have no reason. Married or not, feel the same. Married doesn't mean commitment indefinitely. I was married for close to a year and a half first time, he was very unfaithful and left me. Second husband we waited almost 8 years before marriage and never felt like he wasn't happy and committed.
If my partner did this, I'd want to talk with him and see his reasoning. I don't think I'd flip out on him or start being suspicious. He is my partner, I would be honest with him about how I feel, what I think; then I would ask his. I would genuinely listen, because he is a person who deserves that regardless of how I feel. Maybe he moved on and she asked him? Maybe he didn't think any more about it besides, 'hey, I know her'? Who knows, but I wouldn't assume and would ask him. If he seemed like he missed her, did want to be in contact, expressed an interest in her again based on what he shared/showed; I'd have a problem with that. If he cared about me, he would show me that by taking necessary steps to make me not feel in competition or worry.

[Guy13]

I’m finished when it is done.

[TacosRAwesome]

. Do you think about past sexual partners? Sometimes

2. Do you snoop on social media? No

3. Would you look them up and friend request them years later while in a happy relationship? No. Unless it made sense to my current life situation.

4. How would you feel if your partner of 5 years friend requested someone they were “casually seeing” for a year 12 years previously? Annoyed. Will only accept if it makes sense eg they're now co-workers.

[MountAverage]

1. Yes of course, who doesn't?
2. My ex partners? No, not really.
3. I don't see a reason to do that.
4. Depends on the specific circumstances. But I don't trust my partner of 5 years, then the relationship is doomed anyway.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

1. When I break up with a girl I break up with her face everything from the neck down is what I think about

2. Yes but in my defense she has a ton of twerk videos

3. Only if they are also in a relationship so when we do cheat with each other we both have something to lose

4. I would feel like bruh clapping cheeks

[ObscuredBeyond]

Only one that it ever went that far. I only sometimes get curious, in case she ever attempts to do something crazy to harm me. But with no proof of that, I relax a little.

[melanieeeB]

1. Of course, they were part of my life at one point

2.-3. Nope I don't

4. I don't mind

[melanieeeB]

*4. Sry changing that, it depends on his intentions, could be suspicious

[Asker]

My thoughts are his profile is open he’s married you can see all his pictures so why request him…

My gut says, she wanted a conversation to follow… An inbox message saying something like “hey hope your ok” as if she was intrigued to know if he still thinks about her

[Fireguy17]

No, once we are finished with whatever kind of relationship we had, I move on and don't look back.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

No, ifit's over, it's over. Whether I would care about my partner doing that would depend on them but since I'm with them, I probably wouldn't.

[CateM]

A person's past sexual partners are totally irrelevant unless one of them had an STD

[AddylynnNightingale]

1. I don't.

2. I don't. Care.

3. Same as 2.

4. Same as 3.

[Darine123]

1. Nope
2. Nope
3. Nope
4. I will get mad at him , take his phone and text that bitch

[Jltakk]

Not really, it was one time ages ago, she wasn't even really a romantic partner or anything of the sort.

[LazerBean]

Neither of us have any.

[Nikki1989]

No, once I move on they are dead to me.

[AsaKyo]

I don't have any past sexual partners