Can someone give me a real good advice. How to control my insecurity which she developed in me?

[Anonymous]

She had a character of making me jealous and finding it funny. Used to comment on other men infront of me, even sexually.. recently even said she would cheat me after marriage. I know these shirts are coming out of her immatured mouth. She's so innocent in real life. I know her for 15 years.

But those words made me really insecure. I live in a country with lots of perverts. When she travels in train, Im afraid if guys sitting near her would flirt with her.. ask for number.. if they would behave badly and will she react or not.. kind of.. because those are everyday scenes in my place.

How to get rid of this insecurity and maybe trust issues. I don't know.. how guys/girls?

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+1 y

Sorry not shirt, it's shit*. Almost every women here including her have faced perverts at least once in life. When she was just 14, a guy grabbed and ran away. I was already afraid with these perverts. Now she added up with her stupid talk.

[Anonymous]

You’re insecure about smth about yourself? Or you’re scared something might happen to her and you have no control? That’s a legitimate fear, she should try to avoid these situations herself of course…

[Little_Bumblebee]

Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship if you're with someone who enjoys making you jealous and insecure, and actually tells you that she would cheat on you...

[Asker]

But actually she loves me more than i love her

[Little_Bumblebee]

You don't like hurting someone you really love, so doesn't sound like it from what you're telling

[Asker]

:) you're right.

[Guy13]

You both need to work on yourselves and stay away from one another until both Mature.