We've been together for about 4 years. And overall our relationship is great. He has a 5 year old and I have an 8 year old and the only thing we argue about is disciplining the kids. Well, his sons mom is a drug addict. She cheated on him a lot and it has affected our relationship with his trust issues. But has gotten better. Anyway, his sons mom came to visit their son TWO times over the summer. She went with us to one of his baseball games and as soon as we got there she wanted to leave to get snacks lol. So she was gone for about an hour and came back the last 10 mins of his game. He added her on Facebook amd claims that he did tell me about it but I dont remember that. I do have memory issues so bad. He said he added her because he thought she was gonna be apart of his life. But then he blocked her. So I got suspicious and snooping around in his phone and came across some nudes and sexual pics of when they were together. I know Google drive automatically syncs or uploads photos so he swears up and down he didn't know they were in there. He was very nervous when I opened that drive though... anyway I made it clear to him that I wanted to see them deleted and he ended up "deleting them himself" and seems to can't give me an answer as to why I couldn't witness them being deleted. I've checked everything I can check if he stored these photos somewhere else and can't find nothing. Do you think maybe he was just too embarassed and didn't want me to see al the vulgar stuff with his ex? It made my blood boil just the few that I found.
So being a guy why would I have needs of my ex when I have a girlfriend now that I like and love? I don't know why I do? I guess because I never got around to deleting them, but now that you've brought it to my attention and I see how much it bothers you here you go watch me delete this shit because why would I purposely have pictures of garbage sitting around when I've got the most beautiful view in the world standing right in front of me.
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If he wants to keep her nudes, he can keep them.
its not like he is cheating on you.
If you even care about this then your relationship is doomed anyway.
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Yea he knew he had them I bet and he should have deleted them when they split he is in the wrong there
Maybe he's forgotten about them? But you have every right to mention it.
It’s because he still likes and uses them. He can’t let go
So why can't you accept that he actually deleted them?
Could have been any reason why to be honest
He needs to dump you.
I would break up with him
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