(23f) my boyfriend (32m) of two months and I are I think breaking up later tonight. We met online and clicked immediately. Things were great until a few weeks ago. He stated becoming distant but still contributed to our relationship. If I called he picked up and so I thought we were fine. He is a working professional and is experiencing a busy time at work (holidays.)
My friend caught him on a dating app last week. While I know what he did was wrong I forgave him as I acknowledged that we rushed into our relationship and I did not give him the opportunity choose it, I kinda of forced it on him (my bad and I have apologized.) we have talked about it for the the past week and all I have taken away from him is that he’s not sure what he wants.
we spoke last night and I was a little emotional as I learned I have a medical condition (I’m fine just need surgery.) I stated the phone call with ‘I can’t do this anymore.’ We talked for an hour and I believe we landed on a month long break. He will have time to focus on work and test the waters. I will have time to recover from my surgery and give him space.
we truly get along well. We took a trip this past weekend and he mentioned serval times that he was having a great time. We are on the same page as far as the future is concerned. We have yet to fight and have talked our problems through by administrating space and not yelling. I want this to work and I’m willing to make it work.
were meeting tonight and he is going to cook dinner so we can talk. How do I save this? This is the only man I am willing to fight for.
