My wife decided to set up a joint social media page since we got married. I her if we could do it together as im not very good with social media. She went ahead and set a profile up and asked me to log in. I tried most of the afternoon but couldn't do it. She became very upset and I tried to explain to her what was happening. I was also out shopping at the time. Anyway it got to a point when she just kept saying log in so I kept trying. In the end I gave up and waited for her to call as I was becoming frustrated. She called as usual and asked again. I asked if we could talk first as I was frustrated with the situation but she would not listen and hung up. I then started to receive abusive messages and was accused of not caring. We FaceTimed each other again and we went through the process several more times and each step I screen shot the page and sent it to her. Each time it kept doing the same as before when I first started to log in earlier but again she became angry. We work apart for part of the week and for a few months now she has made excuses on why we can't communicate and her moods have changed. She likes to scrutinise my social media and check my devices but if I dare ask her she clams up and gets very moody. She has said have a look twice and passed her phone but soon demands it back before I can do anything. It now got to the stage where she sent me an abusive text stating she wants a F***ing divorce all because I could not log into this joint social media account. She has since said she loves me again and I've asked her to take one day off to sort this problem out but she has refused. Am I being unreasonable by asking this?
Would you take time off work to save your marriage?
