When my boyfriend went outside to smoke he didn’t sit on the porch as normal. He went to the far side of my house. When I asked why he gave me a nonsensical answer and was immediately pissed at me for even questioning him.
I’ve always been honest with him about my personal closet drug use. I admit a few times in the past it certainly had a negative impact on our relationship so I stopped. I’ve been clean and now he’s demanding I take a drug test to prove it to him.
There are so many double standards in our relationship this is where I draw the line.
When I have a concern he could care less about proving himself to me. Moreover, I would NEVER make a DEMAND like that. He’d be done.
It would be easier in the short run to take the drug test but why should I have to jump through hoops if he’s not willing to do the same for me?
He doesn’t see any similarity between these two situations.
He thinks I’m trying to flip it around but I’m only trying to give him PERSPECTIVE. He’s not being fair.
If I keep accepting double standards like this in the long run I can only expect them to continue right? That’s why I’m holding the line.
I’m open to critique and advice. Thank you.
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Just do it to appease him. Perhaps he doing drugs or texting a girl..."you caught him?"
Grow tf up lady. You're damn near 40. Like stfu
The two of you have compatibility issues.