It depends on the person. I'm the person who says "I love you" after an argument. But ik some people just aren't able to say it because it's not how they feel in the moment, what they feel is anger and frustration.
If and when I have had a partner: I would make it very clear before, after, and especially during the argument to express just how much I love them. Most likely there wouldn't be any reasonable explanation for anything to reach that level if I didn't actually care deeply enough hash it out. A health relationship cannot survive without confrontation and finding common ground. MRP
To be honest with you, my mom does it to my dad and I thinks it’s just out of spite. But you can’t go to bed angry and annoyed with your partner. Plus my mom does say it until my dad says it back.
I would split for a month and drink some coffee with some bitches & then ask if he wants to try again and leave a fat hickey on his neck to piss off the hoe he is banging around with (before or after the fact)
Tbh, I love you is hard when you are angry, but he should have said it back. I hope you guys at least have a good system up for when you argue. Long distance is not for the weak, fr. 🥲
but it doesn't mean that someone wants to say it in the moment. it's immature to think someone feels the same way as you. if that were the case you'd never have a fight
Depending upon the agreement and what it was about. If it started from frustrations you both have then yes I could but I'm willing to bet most would say No.
IMHO, couples should NEVER go to sleep or say goodbye angry. They should ALWAYS say I LOVE YOU, regardless of the argument. Loving someone is independent of any stupid arguments! And you're correct, what if you never get to speak to them again?
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
37Opinion
It depends on the person. I'm the person who says "I love you" after an argument. But ik some people just aren't able to say it because it's not how they feel in the moment, what they feel is anger and frustration.
If and when I have had a partner: I would make it very clear before, after, and especially during the argument to express just how much I love them. Most likely there wouldn't be any reasonable explanation for anything to reach that level if I didn't actually care deeply enough hash it out. A health relationship cannot survive without confrontation and finding common ground.
MRP
If it doesn't come from the heart then they are hollow words. Hollow words are useless words.
Furthermore, if he doesn't love you unconditionally, you may need to reconsider your situation.
To be honest with you, my mom does it to my dad and I thinks it’s just out of spite. But you can’t go to bed angry and annoyed with your partner. Plus my mom does say it until my dad says it back.
I would split for a month and drink some coffee with some bitches & then ask if he wants to try again and leave a fat hickey on his neck to piss off the hoe he is banging around with (before or after the fact)
You should, but not require or demand he does. Share why it is important, but also let him be mad. It's okay.
Tbh, I love you is hard when you are angry, but he should have said it back.
I hope you guys at least have a good system up for when you argue. Long distance is not for the weak, fr. 🥲
If we get to screaming, I've been known to scream, "You're pissing me off, but I still LOVE you!" kind of thing.
It's sad when couples have silly arguments, If I had a girlfriend, I would tell her that I love her after having a heated argument.
you are both right. it's hard to say i love you when you're angry at someone
I guess if your childish it is. No matter how mad I am at my mother or even my boyfriend, I always still love them.
but it doesn't mean that someone wants to say it in the moment. it's immature to think someone feels the same way as you. if that were the case you'd never have a fight
Depending upon the agreement and what it was about. If it started from frustrations you both have then yes I could but I'm willing to bet most would say No.
IMHO, couples should NEVER go to sleep or say goodbye angry. They should ALWAYS say I LOVE YOU, regardless of the argument. Loving someone is independent of any stupid arguments! And you're correct, what if you never get to speak to them again?
I feel like he is being petty. Though I haven't been in a serious argument yet.
Some people say it too often. It starts losing its meaning especially when u say it while u r still angry
When my fella gets mad at me I do my Disney face and push my boobs together, immature yes but seems to work so maybe try that.
Yes I would just because we have an argument don't mean that I don't love him cause I do. Or I wouldn't have stayed all this time.
At least he is bothering to talk at all. Don't expect an ILY being said out loud if it is not actually his love language to do so.
My opinion clearly won’t matter if your best counter argument to actual criticism is “Your immature and clearly your opinion doesn’t matter” 💀💀
That’s kinda normal tho…. Just give him some time to blow off steam
Your "I love you" just lost it's meaning if you use it just whenever you wanna use it.