If a 41 year old woman has a major crush on a 25 year old guy is she crazy/weird/out of her mind/all of the above? (Page 2)

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I've got this huge crush on this way younger guy (I'm 41, he's 25). I'm super crazy attracted to him in a way I haven't been towards anyone in a very long time. We get along super well. We have a ton of fun together and get along great. He's super funny, smart, and sweet. He's also insanely hot (with a body that drives me wild on whole new levels). However, even as I write that I feel really dumb/weird/out of my mind for feeling that way. I'm not one of those women who just wants to date younger guys. In fact, the youngest guy I've ever been with up to this point was a year older than me (which is part of why I'm so taken aback from being so attracted to this guy). I'm almost old enough to be his mom. We flirt all the time. When we are flirting I love it, but afterwards I always feel so weird and stupid for flirting with a guy whose almost young enough to be my son. A huge part of me feels it's just plain stupid and crazy for me to be so attracted to/interested in a guy so much younger.  I really wish I felt this way about a guy my own age, but there's no one my age I'm even close to as attracted to as him. Is me feeling this way really stupid and/or weird? Am I totally out of my mind?

LiamJHayden · Answer

I dated a 42 year old when I was 25. We got along great, but her friends torpedoed it.

SunnyRS · Answer

None, a person can have crush on anyone, what's wrong in that.

driven159 · Answer

No, it is not being happy is the only thing that matters!

spartan55 · Answer

Enjoyourself, cradle robber.

john8907 · Answer

no i find older woman so hot

Stevefiveo · Answer

Totally normal. Go for it and go get him!

OddBeMe · Answer

Lots of us have mom issues. Go for it.

Alex8736 · Answer

have you gone on any dates with him? 😇😊

Nominal · Answer

All and i love it.

Anonymous · Answer

All of the above. But hey, YOLO

JohnK123 · Answer

I’m down haha

riverrat3 · Answer

Go for it

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