Why can’t you be forthcoming? What are you hiding? Obviously 🙄, you are embarrassed or don’t want to lie about something or don’t want secrets discussed. This is not difficult and is adult conversation.
I would be out having demonstrated your unwillingness to be honest when it is uncomfortable.
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Well, if you are just friends, it should not matter. Are you sleeping with him as well though? That would be a good reason to know. I would want to know for the simple reason that I don't want to get any diseases. I am not saying you have any but the odds increase if you are sleeping with multiple partners.
If that is the case and you are sleeping with him, he has a right to know so that he can get sexual health checkups. If you are not sleeping with him, then it is none of his business.
That is my only guess as to why he would want to know other than from jealousy. That could be another reason but a stupid one. If you have made it clear that you are not exclusive, then it isn't his concern. Best idea is to talk to him. All we can do is throw guesses at what he is thinking.
If you’re sleeping him, his ego is involved. He wants to know where he falls within your pool of options.
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