Sometimes, on the first date, you see their car and it looks like this: or the first time you go to their home, you find this: A different date, another time, you find this: or this: When evaluating your potential compatibility for a long term relationship, how important is a person's tidiness/neatness/etc. vs. untidy/unkempt/not orderly?

Essential for me. I'm a neat freak and a hygiene fanatic.

It's important but it's not a turn off. I don't mind helping clean.

@olderandwiser For me, neat & orderly is 100% vital for higher compatibility.

Oh hell, if their home or car look anything like the first two photos, sorry. I don't care how good of sex you give, I'm OUT.

Being organized & tidy is very important.

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Essential for me. I'm a neat freak and a hygiene fanatic.

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It's important but it's not a turn off. I don't mind helping clean.

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@OlderAndWiser For me, neat & orderly is 100% vital for higher compatibility.

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Oh hell, if their home or car look anything like the first two photos, sorry. I don't care how good of sex you give, I'm OUT.

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Being organized & tidy is very important.

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I'm mixed

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