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There could be boundary of self esteem issues that is causing you to date down or not respect your own boundaries. Sometimes you have to say no and be alone if the guy is treating you badly
It usually happens from having high expectations from the beginning and lacking boundaries. Try working on those two it helps a lot!
I think you have answered your own question. Yes you need to take things slowly in the beginning before you can fully trust the guy.
How do you exactly get hurt from guys?
How many guys are we talking about?
And do you see a pattern?
Hope you don't offer them sex because that's the culprit. Stop doing that or you might not find someone to settle.
It’s common and I feel like that do but I think it’s for the best you have your guard up. Trust should be earned.
You have to choose more wisely. I discovered a long time ago most men are not worth the trouble, but don't give up, there are some good men out there. I found one and you can too.
I'd say it's a pretty common experience since majority of guys are shallow douchebags who refuse to work on their character and only know how to be crybabies. Have high standards and only give your time to those guys who meet your standards.
heal your childhood traumas and correct the subconscious belief of what's attracting these type of guys , read more about it
Maybe a general problem. It happens to about everyone. All relationships have their ups and downs. If you're not completely into the person, then they split apart.
I don't think it is just you or just girls. I think we have commoditized each other.
Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex
That was love and marriage.
Women wanted freedom and equality.
This is the unintended consequence.
Be single and sexually free and have healthy fun sex when you need it and surround your self with friends men and women when your not enjoying your self try it it's not for everyone but it worked for me and many others I know just saying x
"Is this something related to me" the question I ask from myself. It is not you, it is your traumas that cause this. You didn't learnt to be like this in one day, it took years. And it will take years to heal too.
@emmakhan
* didn't learn
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Think about the thousands of nice guys you friend zone in favour of the assholes who treat you like shit. Women love to be abused. It's a fact.
Stop dating men you barely know, get to know them first.
what is the usual pattern you have meeting guys? Does it start from a dating app followed by talk/text then meeting up?
You probably trust people too easily. Believe things too easily. Expect things too quickly. Do the opposite of those.
You sound like a woman that has slept around. Gross. Total turnoff.
When one gets attached to someone unworthy of it, getting hurt is a given.
Yep. But let's be honest you're not going to change anything you're doing. So you probably should just not date.