If we’re not at least engaged, I don’t feel I owe him sex. I’m not saying I wouldn’t have sex before then, but I just don’t see an issue with a lack of sex before then
Ohh 100% man , after reading that , you need to get out while the goings good , this situation appears to be simply getting worse and worse , thats not a relationship.
I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that she's cheating. I know people say that's a sign, but people can also have sex with their partner more often when they're cheating. So don't assume that just yet
I dated somebody for 4 years and she was saving it for marriage. It was not exactly a waste of time because we didn t; have sex but it was a waste of time for other reasons.
If both of you can agree on not wanting it from the beginning then no it’s not especially if you’re religious and you wait until marriage. And yes Ik there are religious couples that have before marriage but nobody is perfect
If sex is what makes a relationship work, sure sounds like slutting to me. Romantic relationships are about romantic love, not sex. For Christians, how did Mary marry Joseph if She was a virgin?
@TiaraGlitzNeon yeah but it’s not like men because sex is an opportunity for men and a decision for women
It’s like a pick up game: Women decide who is on their team and Men just have to hope we get picked
But this is good because if having sex was left up to men it would be all that we would do
Women’s bodies are made to attract males Male bodies are made to outrun and over power women
You see in nature gRape is not illegal if a male tiger comes across a female tiger her consent doesn’t matter because if she doesn’t give up the kitty ( see what I did there 😂) she is going to die
Because sex is a survival instinct that we all have
Sounds like she’s unattracted to you sexually. You are making it a focus point and it’s annoying. I wouldn’t want it with you either. I don’t blame her
Sorry girlie, but sex is important for people with healthy sex drives. It's a biological instinct, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting it. It sounds like his girlfriend is making every excuse in the book not to have sex with him, and he even pointed out that she was more sexual with exes, but she makes excuses with him. She's the issue by the sounds of it and needs to go.
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If we’re not at least engaged, I don’t feel I owe him sex. I’m not saying I wouldn’t have sex before then, but I just don’t see an issue with a lack of sex before then
Ohh 100% man , after reading that , you need to get out while the goings good , this situation appears to be simply getting worse and worse , thats not a relationship.
I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that she's cheating. I know people say that's a sign, but people can also have sex with their partner more often when they're cheating. So don't assume that just yet
I dated somebody for 4 years and she was saving it for marriage. It was not exactly a waste of time because we didn t; have sex but it was a waste of time for other reasons.
I voted it can be fixed. Hit the weights and you'll know you're there when she's trying to have sex more than you feel like it.
A sexless relationship is called friendship.
I don't think they are, but I guess that's just because sex really isn't a big deal to me
But if it is for you, then I guess it is a waste of time
If both of you can agree on not wanting it from the beginning then no it’s not especially if you’re religious and you wait until marriage. And yes Ik there are religious couples that have before marriage but nobody is perfect
That's up to you, but I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that.
If both are happy with no sex there is no reason for the relationship to work very well!
not a waste of time but probably annoying sometimes.
Maybe she's had issues with guys in the past and is just scared
If sex is what makes a relationship work, sure sounds like slutting to me. Romantic relationships are about romantic love, not sex. For Christians, how did Mary marry Joseph if She was a virgin?
In my opinion, they are. With my sex drive, I simply cannot be in a sexless relationship.
Also, yes, you should break up with her. It sounds like she's making excuses because she's just not attracted to you.
Bin her , she sounds like a controlling liabilty. Far better off single
My view is it is a casual open relationship, cause I would be wanting sex from another girl if wasn't getting it from the casual girl.
Men need sex to feel love
Women need to feel loved to have sex
Not always true lol
I mean yea Unless she’s a whore then she just needs payment
No, some women, like men, need sex just as much.
@TiaraGlitzNeon yeah but it’s not like men because sex is an opportunity for men and a decision for women
It’s like a pick up game:
Women decide who is on their team and Men just have to hope we get picked
But this is good because if having sex was left up to men it would be all that we would do
Women’s bodies are made to attract males
Male bodies are made to outrun and over power women
You see in nature gRape is not illegal if a male tiger comes across a female tiger her consent doesn’t matter because if she doesn’t give up the kitty ( see what I did there 😂) she is going to die
Because sex is a survival instinct that we all have
Sounds like she’s unattracted to you sexually. You are making it a focus point and it’s annoying. I wouldn’t want it with you either. I don’t blame her
Sorry girlie, but sex is important for people with healthy sex drives. It's a biological instinct, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting it. It sounds like his girlfriend is making every excuse in the book not to have sex with him, and he even pointed out that she was more sexual with exes, but she makes excuses with him. She's the issue by the sounds of it and needs to go.
She probably just doesn't want sex with YOU.
Nope.
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