Why do people expect more in relationships?

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Why do people have an expectation in relationships that any form of intimacy is given. Like what if someone wasn’t interested in it. It’s like saying you can’t have a relationship with the sx in it. What if someone didn’t wanna be kiss or hug and so on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Expectations in relationships are often shaped by cultural norms, personal values, and individual preferences. While physical intimacy is commonly associated with romantic relationships, it's important to remember that every individual has the right to set and communicate their own boundaries and preferences.

It's perfectly valid for someone to not be interested in certain forms of physical intimacy, and it's important for their partner to respect and honor those boundaries. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's important for both partners to be clear and honest about their wants, needs, and boundaries.

It's also important to recognize that there is no one-size-fits-all definition of what a "successful" relationship looks like. Each relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Ultimately, it's up to each individual to determine what they want and need in a relationship, and to communicate those wants and needs to their partner in a respectful and open way.

Aysen · Accepted Answer

It's the assumption most people expect within a relationship as seen in the public, TV and the media as a whole; that intimacy is one of the most important aspects of it to keep a relationship healthy. If being asexual and/or non-intimate is what you want, then make it very clear to the person who you want a relationship with, right from the start so those expectations can be met.

I know a lot of people would say this would just be considered a friendship but I have heard of successful stories of relationships where no intimacy was ever involved! Everyone has their preference to relationships; just don't ever compromise what you truly want, no matter what anyone or society tells you 😊

Anonymous · Answer

Why? Because intimacy is critically important to a healthy romantic relationship. Without it, there will be a big empty void, and chances are very high that at least one partner will be unsatisfied and unhappy.

The bigger question is, why would one partner NOT want intimacy? And why would they still want to be in the relationship without it? That's a big red flag in my opinion.

boggboss · Answer

Then speak about that when getting together as we have understood expectations of what a relationship is

EpicSnail · Answer

Those are called "friends"

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