How to recover after being too eager to kiss my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating my boyfriend for six months. We're 20 years old. He never really initiated making out with me and I kind of really didn't want to wait anymore so I literally told him I want to kiss properly. He said he felt too shy to do that since we can't really go anywhere fully private. I may have been a bit too eager to kiss so we finally did it today but it felt like he didn't really enjoy it. I feel really shitty. I want him to want me but either he doesn't or he is so anxious about it that we can never really enjoy each other. How do I recover from this and make him want me? How do I become attractive to him again?

[razelove]

That's kind of off. Does he, or you have medical or religious reasons to stay that distant? Six months for me is long enough to have moved in together, kissing is more of a 6 to 60 minutes...
If he isn't attracted to you, it may not have anything to do with you, but that you may be in a lipstick relationship.

[Leapfrog00]

It sounds like you weren't in the right setting. If there were other people around or you both were rushing it, the kiss probably wasn't the magic you had hoped for.

What to do is don't pick a certain time to do it, wait until you're alone, and just ease into it. Put on some music, stare at each other without talking for a couple of minutes, and then go for it. The kiss will be so much better. Trust me!

[Wild_princess]

Talk to him about what pace he want to run the relationship

[Anonymous]

What, you dated for 6 months without kissing?

[mommymommymommy]

Neal on half and half, was waiting (celibate), I dont know if he's the same way, but that could have been (could be) why.

Also, maybe he was just afraid he was a bad kisser, and that's why he was putting it off.

In the end though, it ultimately just has to be that you need to say to him something along the lines of, are you still into/attracted to me/why aren't you trying to kiss me more

[FilmGuy93]

Just take a deep breath and give him time to recover. You haven't exactly done anything wild. Just don't push him for a kiss again. He'll kiss you again when he's ready.

[abc3643]

This is why God gave us cars and remote places to park and make-out.

[Iron_Man]

How old are you? You act like you’re a teenager this is something totally different.

[Asker]

We're both 20

[Iron_Man]

Kind of immature very young to have a serious relationship. You just left your teenager stage

[Jltakk]

I'm not the type to initiate that sort of thing either. I am not good with social cues and I don't like to jump and make a mistake.

[Nominal]

Rub yr ass at him. Intimacy drivin the love. So, be close physically.

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one that asked you out