Me and my girlfriend have been doing long distance for 7 months. Things were going really good for the first 6 months but the last month or so has been really hard for us because we've been having a lot of miscommunications. I really do love her and I believe that she really loves me.
She recently brought up to me that she feels that I wasn't making her feel special enough and I told her that I was feeling the same way. I also told her that I stopped being as sweet and lovey dovey when I felt like she wasn't appreciating it anymore (she wasn't giving me any feedback on the things that I did for her).
Last night she told me that if things had continued that way then things were going to have to come to an end. She told me that she thought that I didn't like her anymore and I felt the exact same way and I told her. We talked about it last night and this morning I told her that I was sorry and told her how much I loved her. I bought her favorite perfume and am having it delivered to her house tomorrow and she really loved that.. but now I feel like she's kinda ignoring me? She said that we should probably talk less because I "don't know how to have a conversation" and she said because I don't have "much going on".. (I'm currently unemployed).
I'm supposed to be moving to be closer to her very soon (I'd say within the next 30 days or so). I was talking to her about me moving closer and before she used to speak about it with so much enthusiasm but I feel like today she was kinda somber towards me regarding it. It's just a little hard getting back into gear after us having this break up scare and of us losing interest kinda because we felt like the other lost interest.
Is this normal? Is it always a little weird after a miscommunication or do I just have to give it time or is there something that I can do or say to check in with her and make sure that everything is okay? Thank you for so much for taking the time to read this and have an amazing day!
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