Would you break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend if after 3 months they said they were Bi?

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

no, I would never do that... it doesn't bother me at all

in fact, my ex-girlfriend is bisexual... but, I knew that since before we were an item

three months can be soon or not so soon depending on many circumstances, and... some things are more or less difficult to discuss or open about for whatever reasons

if they were not too keen to talk about this very early on, I would want to understand the reasons as to why... rather than just get all kinds of upset and leave, that would never make sense to me, personally

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Hilarious that most women said yes and practically all men said "threesome"

Conclusion: bisexual men have it a lot harder than bisexual women.

I went on a date yesterday and the girl said midway through she prefers being honest, she's bi and one of her exes is a woman.

I swear she said that and looked at me like i was about to walk away from the date.
My reaction was to say "cool i dated women too in the past"

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

It's all about whether that person wants to stay with you and not fool around with others, OR whether that polyamourous stuff flies with you.

I would be rather upset that this person didn't tell me initially. That's an important aspect. But, all in all, it doesn't matter if the person decides to choose you.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Yes not because of being bi but because of waiting three months to disclose that… No relationship that starts with dishonesty for me… That’s something that should be known BEFORE getting into a relationship with someone not AFTER!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, absolutely, based on a a horrible experience with a bi girl about 20 years ago.

Apple1996 · Answer

No that wouldn't bother me at all since I'm also bi

Nikki1989 · Answer

You should know that at the start, not in 3 months time.

SaoirseS · Answer

I dated bilingual guys, but they didn't last three months.

NamerOfStars · Answer

I've never understood the idea that you can't be loyal to your partner if you're attracted to other people; last I checked, humans  choose  to have sex, and aren't controlled by their hormones.

Anemone978 · Answer

If they wanted to sleep with others on the side yes.. I heard many bi people get with someone then say well I am bi I still need to fuck guys/girls so let me lol So they are cheating in the relationship..

maskgirl · Answer

I would say I. m happy for you then ask what you want to do with our relationship and if they say stay then I will remain if they say leave I will leave it's up to them because they had the courage to come to me and tell me so if they don't want to be with me anymore that is okay

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. I am too and I would never break up with someone because of their sexuality unless that meant they weren’t attracted to me anymore, in which case we probably wouldn’t have dated in the first place.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Absolutely not. As long as I fall in to spectrum of their sexual preference, I'm ok with it. If Mt buddy isn't enough to turn them in m on, then I don't want it

Leapfrog00 · Answer

No, because sometimes it's hard for people to talk about their sexuality, so I would understand. For years people thought I was gay because of how I talk, so if I was ever bi, I guess it would be easy for me, but for someone concealing their sexuality, I could understand that would be a hard thing to talk about. People are so goddamn judgmental.

Sam161 · Answer

My question would be to what extent this is something that you're doing weekly or something you didn't College or is this going to affect our relationship. But since my divorce I have become more open-minded and in my eyes to each his own. I would welcome her to whatever she wants to be. I would expect the same from her for me.

RingOfFire · Answer

Probably because I think if you are Bi you cannot be sexually satisfied with just one sex partner. You need one from column A AND one from column B. And I am not interested in a woman who needs other sex partners to be happy.

marish01 · Answer

I want him to be 100% straight and be happy that I am 100% straight.

If he likes female bisexuality it is as much turn off as if he himself is bisexual.

In short if he is turned on by homo acts it is a deal breaker.

sheikalana · Answer

I probably would cuz why would you hide and wait for so long to mention it? I think this is the type of thing I would want to know even before starting to date someone.

sage2021 · Answer

Yes, I would break up right away! That's too weird for me.

BrookeAZ90 · Answer

No, but that's kinda something that should come up long before that.

nolabels · Answer

Nope. I'd say that we should then find some willing partners to have some fun with.

Agape93 · Answer

No, why would that be an issue? Eat pussy, same. Suck dick, same.

jennafish · Answer

Yes because it’ll seem like they have fallen for the same sex and is experimenting

RobT312 · Answer

No problems with that. Only if it was causing problems in the relationship , but that wasn’t the question. Most think bi means cheating but not the case at all.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't dislike bi men but I prefer straight men since I'm straight.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Yes... it's just too mellow for my taste...

EmmaMary · Answer

Absolutely, that's total dishonesty at its very worse.

spartan55 · Answer

If she sprung that on me after three months? Not even a question she'd be gone.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally yes as I want to have kids one day! That would definitely be hard for me!

DarkWinterNights · Answer

That’s something that would be established before we started dating. If after 3 months they sprung that on me, there would be other issues.

Guanfei · Answer

I don't care if she is, as long as she doesn't cheat on me.

msmissydc · Answer

No, why would that change anything? They are still into my gender.

Siri137 · Answer

No, I'd be happy! Threesomes! Yay! :D :* <3 ;P

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Because she's been lying to me this whole time then about who she is.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Nope, considering I'm bi as well.

OddBeMe · Answer

Not sure why they would realize it unless they were seeking out other attractive people. Happy couples usually just stare blindly at each other.  But being bi doesn’t mean they’d cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

What's your problem with LGBTQA people? 🙄 Why do you always target them along with women in your questions?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. I don't care if she's bi. But she will just have to give up on women entirely and be willing to accept that.

runnerboy · Answer

No not if I still liked them... but we would have to figure things out

Anonymous · Answer

No. Unless they lied, I don't see a reason why would it matter?

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'm bisexual so I'd be cool with it for sure.

ericclayton · Answer

It seems like that should be revealed out front, not concealed for later.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’d breakup at any point they said that shit

worldscolide · Answer

My wife is bi, what does that tell you?

DermalPunch · Answer

Yes. Not compatible

Jerre · Answer

No I would not break up. I would think ahead that a FMF 3-sum was just down the road.

Pink0123 · Answer

I think it's something that should be brought up from the beginning like 2nd third date maybe.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

No, I wouldn't.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Most women if not all are bi so no.

astrophelle · Answer

No sure it’s too normal one of my ex was a bisex.

Anonymous · Answer

yes because im straight and i want my partner to also be straight

BrookeS · Answer

No, me and my girlfriend are bi

TallAnon · Answer

I do not care if they are bi at all

msc545 · Answer

no, if everything ws going ok.

Sarahr123 · Answer

Yes. Want straight men only.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Lmao alright, but only if I get to watch

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Nope

Beth1212 · Answer

no im cool with that im bi as well

John_Doesnt · Answer

That is totally gay.

Redstang88 · Answer

Why would I care?

KrakenAttackin · Answer

All women are bi.

Anonymous · Answer

i would, yes.

Sparkie460 · Answer

No I wouldn't.

AimeeKyle · Answer

No. I would have a lot of questions though.

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