Yes not because of being bi but because of waiting three months to disclose that… No relationship that starts with dishonesty for me… That’s something that should be known BEFORE getting into a relationship with someone not AFTER!
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no, I would never do that... it doesn't bother me at all
in fact, my ex-girlfriend is bisexual... but, I knew that since before we were an item
three months can be soon or not so soon depending on many circumstances, and... some things are more or less difficult to discuss or open about for whatever reasons
if they were not too keen to talk about this very early on, I would want to understand the reasons as to why... rather than just get all kinds of upset and leave, that would never make sense to me, personally
Hilarious that most women said yes and practically all men said "threesome"
Conclusion: bisexual men have it a lot harder than bisexual women.
I went on a date yesterday and the girl said midway through she prefers being honest, she's bi and one of her exes is a woman.
I swear she said that and looked at me like i was about to walk away from the date.
My reaction was to say "cool i dated women too in the past"
It's all about whether that person wants to stay with you and not fool around with others, OR whether that polyamourous stuff flies with you.
I would be rather upset that this person didn't tell me initially. That's an important aspect. But, all in all, it doesn't matter if the person decides to choose you.
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Yes, absolutely, based on a a horrible experience with a bi girl about 20 years ago.
No that wouldn't bother me at all since I'm also bi
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I dated bilingual guys, but they didn't last three months.
I've never understood the idea that you can't be loyal to your partner if you're attracted to other people; last I checked, humans choose to have sex, and aren't controlled by their hormones.
You should know that at the start, not in 3 months time.
If they wanted to sleep with others on the side yes.. I heard many bi people get with someone then say well I am bi I still need to fuck guys/girls so let me lol So they are cheating in the relationship..
I would say I. m happy for you then ask what you want to do with our relationship and if they say stay then I will remain if they say leave I will leave it's up to them because they had the courage to come to me and tell me so if they don't want to be with me anymore that is okay
No. I am too and I would never break up with someone because of their sexuality unless that meant they weren’t attracted to me anymore, in which case we probably wouldn’t have dated in the first place.
Absolutely not. As long as I fall in to spectrum of their sexual preference, I'm ok with it. If Mt buddy isn't enough to turn them in m on, then I don't want it
No, because sometimes it's hard for people to talk about their sexuality, so I would understand. For years people thought I was gay because of how I talk, so if I was ever bi, I guess it would be easy for me, but for someone concealing their sexuality, I could understand that would be a hard thing to talk about. People are so goddamn judgmental.
My question would be to what extent this is something that you're doing weekly or something you didn't College or is this going to affect our relationship. But since my divorce I have become more open-minded and in my eyes to each his own. I would welcome her to whatever she wants to be. I would expect the same from her for me.
I want him to be 100% straight and be happy that I am 100% straight.
If he likes female bisexuality it is as much turn off as if he himself is bisexual.
In short if he is turned on by homo acts it is a deal breaker.
I probably would cuz why would you hide and wait for so long to mention it? I think this is the type of thing I would want to know even before starting to date someone.
Probably because I think if you are Bi you cannot be sexually satisfied with just one sex partner. You need one from column A AND one from column B. And I am not interested in a woman who needs other sex partners to be happy.
Yes, I would break up right away! That's too weird for me.
No, but that's kinda something that should come up long before that.
Nope.
I'd say that we should then find some willing partners to have some fun with.
No, why would that be an issue? Eat pussy, same. Suck dick, same.
Yes because it’ll seem like they have fallen for the same sex and is experimenting
No problems with that. Only if it was causing problems in the relationship , but that wasn’t the question. Most think bi means cheating but not the case at all.
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