When you're planning to move in with a guy, do you expect him to change things about his home, like how it's decorated and the like?

I would expect the blanket to match the season or household temperature and the pillows to match my neck habits, not too high and not too low. Warmer blankets for winter and colder for autumn or spring. Would also want there to be tools for removing pests such as insect zappers or insect traps or insect repellant and would want snacks in the fridge and clothe and mittens for transferring cooked foods to the kitchen table. Then would not want visible grease anywhere. Everything else is fine. I would want at least 2 rooms to be gender neutral or feminine.
My old friend who was in design. She moved in to the boyfriend. He was a tech geek with basic plain apt…she transformed the apt. really really chic, stlysih…he also started to dressed really nice!! When they got married in city hall…they were photographed and put on front page by the city newspaper how well they dressed to get married in city hall…not the traditional white dress and suit.
Lol just don't throw away my stuff I am very organized anyway I hate disorganization and mess and I know where everything is
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Yeah but not like get rid of anything just add to what he already has
Thats why I wouldn't move in with someone. It would need to be a place we got together OR we’d just stay living separately. Because i’d absolutely want to change his stuff around but refuse to because that would be disrespecful
@DizzyDesii and that is just one of the things I like about you. Holding the baseball bat behind you and not using it to be respectful. lol But, one of these day... One of these days... Pow... right in the kisser... lol Sorry but reading what you said made me think of the honeymooners...
@nawtee_me haha
I'd like some space for my things. I wouldn't redecorate his home. If you stop and think about it, if you're there for the long run, eventually it will your space as well and everything will eventually just meld itself together.
No not if you are moving into his place. I think over time yes but to automatically come in a take over may be overstepping.
Nope unless he wants to. But ultimately it's his space, he's just sharing it with me.
I solved that problem... he moved in with me !!!
I would. 😁
I think most women are like that.
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