I'm in a very happy, loving relationship now, I live in a beautiful house that I share with my sweetheart of a boyfriend I've been for four years he's such a good man but I sometimes look back on times before him when I was really hurt in a relationship more hurt then I'd like to admit.
I don't love this guy no longer but at the time I really did, he was my first love and he hurt my heart so bad I'm still a little hurt by it today. I never understood why he messed me so much I thought he cared about me and he loved pretending that he did. All he cared about was looking cool to his friends.
His friends told me he loved me and to give him another chance honestly don't think he was aware of the way he hurt me but he never had the gutts to ask me himself.
He's say it didn't want me but his actions would say differently and so did his friends which had be so confused
It just hurts knowing someone was so cruel to dismis my feelings like that. I've always thought I was good person and I'd never hurt someone in the way he hurt me.
I kinda look back on it now and think this boy could never have loved me because If so he would have took me at the first chance he got instead of playing fucked up games.
Love really isn't as difficult as some people try and make it out to be or maybe when it's with the right person it's just easy but I'm so glad I met my boyfriend and moved away from my home town were everyone was so heartless
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The undeniable reality is that people do what they want to do. Very few of us ever had a loaded gun pointed at us with an order to perform some act or be shot. Few of us have a knife held to our throat. For the most part, people do what they want to do and don't do the things that they don't want to do.
If the ex wanted you and that was a sufficiently strong motivation, he would have pursued you. The only conclusion is that you weren't THAT important to him. . . despite whatever charade he maintained in your presence.
I don't know what goes on in people's minds. It is sometimes a mystery that you will never solve. I have had girls screw me over and I have been hurt a few times so bad that I did not think I would get past it.
You are really on the other side. You have a great relationship and seem to be doing good. I had an uncle that used to say "Living well is the best revenge. " You should just go with that.
False. The opposite may be true. If she wanted to she would.