I’m 21. My boyfriend is 26. I’m 6 months pregnant with his child so I’m really hormonal and just emotional. He once made a joke saying ‘oh how’s your mom I really like her’ and since then it’s gone over my head. My mom and him ALWAYS bond over the baby and I feel like they have more in depth conversations about it than we do. I understand she’s my mom and that’s the only thing she can really talk to him about as everyone parent would but I feel like he prefers her? My mom is the best she’s lovely and selfless and just better than me overall as I’m young and have things to work on such as better communication, I’m really hormonal and stressed about becoming a mom and I feel like whenever them two speak I get really moody and he even notices it because he’s like ‘what’s wrong why are you not excited’ but I just get quite sad that he speaks to her loads, it is always regarding me and the baby but I just feel like he thinks she’s better at communicating since she’s 40 and she probably is. Am I being immature if I mention something here? Like my mom will bring up things I haven’t even had chance to mention to him since me and her are like best friends and we talk about the baby a lot and I feel like I look bad since SHE always brings It up to him since they have nothing else to talk about? Am I being childish here- help, I feel like I am and I don’t want to be this way.
I feel like my boyfriend prefers my mom - am I being immature?
Updates
10 mo
Me and him would not have been able to have this baby without my mom, she’s the one who’s bought us a flat and helped out and everything so I know he really appreciate me her as a mother in law but it stresses me out sometimes
Updates
10 mo
She’s VERY friendly and she’s like it with all of my friends and everyone really, even my friends come just to see her sometimes as she does so much for them it just makes me feel pushed aside sometimes
