When people’s preferences differ from who you are, do you see their preferences as a judgment of you that needs to change?

[caring__1]

Do you feel you need to alter yourself, or do you feel they should alter their preferences? Do you respect those preferences without personalizing them? Do you live a double standard where you feel entitled to your preferences but feel others aren't entitled to their preferences?

[petitedollbabee]

I respect their preferences and I don’t take it as a personal attack. Everyone is allowed to have preferences. I have my own and I don’t expect others to take offence to them.

[empathylove]

It depends on the person whom I am in touch with. If that person matter to me. I will definitely try to understand the person's point of view

[caring__1]

It can be helpful to see things through their eyes, but if they feel you're ugly because you only have 2 arms instead of 4, accept that this is their problem, not yours.

[Senator754]

This is correct. I always say to my self it’s none of my business what you think of me, it’s only my business of how and what I think of myself.