I cheated on my boyfriend multiples times with different guys. Is it possible to move on from that and make up for it without ever telling him? (Page 2)
if your boyfriend has any backbone you'll never hear from him again
traitors deserve what's coming to them
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I feel for you hun. But you need to tell him the truth. It will never sit right with you to keep this from him and the guilt will just eat away at you. Tell him and hope that he understands and if he doesn't then it just wasn't meant to be.
I've been in a similar situation where I hid something from my boyfriend and the guilt ate away at me. I eventually told him and he broke up with me but we did get back together.
Resist the temptation to tell him everything, because that will only create an even bigger mess. Just continue with your relationship the same as always, and if you can't avoid having a little bit on the side, deal with that when it happens.
Lol, are you for real, what a white knight simp. It absolute is not ok for women to cheat and what wtf you mean by women being perfect. You went anon to hide the embarassment behind what you just said. Just about the worse simping i have ever seen.
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if your boyfriend has any backbone you'll never hear from him again
traitors deserve what's coming to them
I feel for you hun. But you need to tell him the truth. It will never sit right with you to keep this from him and the guilt will just eat away at you. Tell him and hope that he understands and if he doesn't then it just wasn't meant to be.
If I tell him then it’s over
Then you just will live your life filled with guilt. That's a hard life to live. I wouldn't want to live a life like that.
what do u mean u feel for her she cheated
I've been in a similar situation where I hid something from my boyfriend and the guilt ate away at me. I eventually told him and he broke up with me but we did get back together.
why did u cheat on him?
No I didn't cheat on him.
what did u hide from him?
I catfished him. It's a lot to explain and I won't explain why I did it but just know that's what I did to him.
Not the same as cheating
And she deserves no sympathy
@Opinion Owner Exactly what is the point of catfishing? Like, do you enjoy lying to people? And he’s dumb for ever getting back with you.
Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.
Hand me the rocks so i throw them on her, finish the troll 😄
You need to do a deep introspection and not ask the question, "what is best for me?" That's the kind of selfishness that got you into this mess.
Instead? Ask what is best for him.
Tell him.. If you didn't want to lose him you shouldn't of done it. Let him have the right to leave if he wants..
I think you can move past this and continue your relationship with him. If he doesn't know, there's no point in telling him.
Resist the temptation to tell him everything, because that will only create an even bigger mess. Just continue with your relationship the same as always, and if you can't avoid having a little bit on the side, deal with that when it happens.
He is not the 'perfect catch.' And you miss, shortly put it, the term does not exist when you are around.
Don't worry, he will find out eventually and kick your gross ass to the curb.
You should tell him. Ask yourself how would it make you feel if he did the same thing to you.
Cheaters don’t care if they get cheated on.
@Sasha0426 Not too sure about that. Cheaters tend to be really paranoid about their partner cheating on them.
Sometimes you have to face the music, no matter how sour the notes
Sleep with more guys than tell your boyfriend, sorry their dicks just slipped inside me by fault, what do i do? I will clean the house more 🤣🤣
I feel you should end the relationship and set him free. You are clearly not ready to settle down and be exclusive.
If you dont wanna tell him, then dont. I know you have shitty feeling for what you did - but that is your punishment! Now suffer!
It's okay for women to cheat. Women are perfect in every way and I am sure you cheated for a good reason.
Lol, are you for real, what a white knight simp. It absolute is not ok for women to cheat and what wtf you mean by women being perfect. You went anon to hide the embarassment behind what you just said. Just about the worse simping i have ever seen.
Oh, fuck off, you delusional bastard. Only cowards cheat.
It's sarcasm.
I would try to put it in the past, not tell him and move on in your life with him.
Why would you keep cheating a secret? People are such fucking cowards.
Nope. It’s obvious you don’t love or respect him so let him go
Yea move on and forget that it happened
why should she get away with this?
@rebeliouse if she totally want to change her life then no reason to create big issue
It is a big deal and she deserves to suffer for the rest of her life for it
@DarkLegacy the guy will suffer too
Lol as he don't know about you then you also don't know about him 🤣
Let him go so he can find someone better.
Lol there is nobody better than me.
So you say. There’s women out there who are actually loyal and don’t betray their partners.
You can But it will be difficult