Well, I can tell you that the attitude of blaming and envying others unfortunately doesn’t help your case. But women who do those things you talk about don’t get that love by being terrible, they do it through manipulation, playing games and making these men think not only is she everything he wants but she’s the best he’ll ever deserve. These women do so out of the same fear you have, the fear of being alone and unloved. Is that an excuse? Of course not, that doesn’t take away from what they’re doing and why it’s wrong. But you seeing this isn’t something to get angry over, it’s something to pity. These girls’ lives are so ruled by fear and insecurity it drives them to do awful things in the name of a temporary — because it’s always temporary — happiness. You don’t do that, you don’t manipulate men into believing you’re someone you’re not, you are worthy of being loved, but maybe you should start with a full acceptance of yourself. Yes, you deserve love as everyone does, but don’t place romantic love on such a high pedestal. Your friends love you too, so does your family, even your coworkers, even your pets if you have any. You are loved in many different ways, there is an abundance of love if one can acknowledge it. But when it comes to romantic love, it becomes much easier to find when you love yourself enough to see that these girls who manipulate and cheat on these men don’t.
Or I could be some pretentious motherfucker spouting condescending nonsense lol I do hope you have a good life, for whatever it’s worth.
There's no accounting for tastes. People make poor choices every day: for looks, clothes, money instead of for a person who meshes with them and has similar values and is loyal and trustworthy.
You're still very young. You have a lot of time to meet and get to know someone who will appreciate you. But if you're in either emotional or physical pain, which is sounds like you are, I suggest you find yourself a good therapist to work through these problems. You want to love yourself first and foremost. Then you're ready for a relationship.
It's best that you don't NEED love, but that those needs are met by YOU. Then you can WANT love to make your life just that much better. Good luck.
because most men have a terrible vetting process when it comes to selecting their women. as long as she's ok in both the looks and personality department plus they give them some attention (due to men typically having less options than women), those men will gloss over every single red flag staring in their face
they don't look any further into if she is willing to learn domestic skills, gets along with family members, has a low body count, what her political beliefs are, motherly instincts etc.
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So why am I not loved when I need love so much? “”
What are you even talking about. If you NEED it. Go get it. Go out, go to parties. Go to clubs. Go to meet ups. Go to events. Meet men in person.
YOU NEEEDD it. So go find it. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
A good person doesn't have to tell people they are a good person. So probably there's bad really about you.
Who are you to determine this? Just because no one loves you doesn't mean you hate on everyone else
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