What do you do when your friend refuses your advice to end their toxic relationship? (Page 2)

[bolverk]

There's nothing much you can do, you can advised them but the decisions around the relationship is theirs to make. good or bad, From here on all you can do is ask them not talk to you about what's going on between them, and not start with the 'I told you so's' when the relationship hits the buffers.

[RingOfFire]

Simple answer... it's none of your business what your friend decides to do. You gave your view, they heard you and they made their decision. If you can't live with it that's your problem. Leave the friendship, or stay and respect their decision. Those are your options and your decision to make. They made their decision and now its time for you to make yours.

[Sasha0426]

I straight up told my BFF that whatever relationship she gets into and it’s toxic, I don’t want to hear it. Because she does have a history of toxic relationships where it almost ended our friendship. Thankfully, she finally took a breather and got her mental state straightened out.
Now, she’s with a great guy and they’re expecting 🥰

[jeffend888]

You mind your own business. You're in your late 30s/early 40s. Why are you making your friend's business your business anyway? Do you not have a life?

Focus on your own life and nuclear family. If you don't have a nuclear family, then this post makes a whole lot of sense.

[Jazzy54]

Step back. If you’re friend isn’t in physical danger, mind your business. I know that’s hard to witness because that’s your friend. However, your friend is an adult. Sometimes, we have to learn things the hard way.

[Anonymous]

i'd say that they're toxic themselves and i can see why they attract other toxic people. i'd then just stop talking to them all together because it's not my problem and i can sleep peacefully at night.

[Vampire_Killing_Time]

Nothing. I respect their decision to keep it going. I already stated my opinion on the matter, it is now up to them to figure out if it's worth the pain they're going through.

[Fireguy17]

you did all that you could do.
Just be there for them when they fall and figure out that ya, I should have listened to you.

[Exterminatore]

The sane thing you do with boys who want to be girls. Hand them the scissors and let them learn the hard way.

[ronaldo75]

Nothing. Both men and women who are in abusive relationships are in them by choice. The bullshit about the abuser being a controlling manipulator is bullshit. Especially iin the US.

[JesseP1nk]

Actually i am in this situation right now too. I just listen my friends problem if they tell and thats it. Im not gonna give my advice because i dont wanna be a homewrecker.

[sheikalana]

I don't do anything. Their relationship is none of my business in the first place.

[elianmuse]

You should let them be, they’ll see the reason why they should have heeded to your advice on the end.

[grega239]

Had a friend like that. She made her choice and can deal with the consequences on her own. Im not solving her problems

[Twalli]

It's the same with abusive relationships, they believe that their situation is different and unlike all the other ones.

[driven159]

do nothing they made their bed now they have to sleep in it.

[DeluluGrl91]

Become passive aggressive. Act like you don’t care or you’re uninterested when they vent to you about their relationship. Change the topic.

[Anonymous]

You need to mind your business. You sound like one of those lonely miserable friends who can't get a man so you tear up everyone else relationship

[Unit1]

Its their life

🚤🏖️🍹

[OddBeMe]

Isn’t drama what y’all bitches want?