So we’ve been together one year, and let me tell you it’s been a journey. A lot of up and downs. He’s been in relationships before where as I haven’t, he’s my first ever boyfriend. So I will give him credit, I do have a lot to improve on to be a better partner. I think the first year together is always the hardest because you’re getting used to each other. Anyways, we got in a little disagreement recently and he mentions that all his friends (who I met only a handful of times) don’t like me. I’ve never gotten that vibe from them and can’t think of a reason why cause I’ve always been respectful and chill. He tells me they know about all our fights and our personal issues and so then the fight escalated into a bigger problem. He says they see how I treat him too…and that now even his coworkers which he barely knows that well don’t approve of me based off hearing about our fights. My boyfriend has done a lot of toxic things to me that my friends know about and have never judged him nor talked badly about him. And I don’t go airing out his dirty laundry often unless it’s something I really need to vent about. So I guess my question is how do I go about this information in a healthy way and do you think it’s ok for friends and family members, coworkers to be in his ear about me this much? Do I have a right to be upset?