Is it ok for my boyfriend to go and tell his friends our problems? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-09-26T16:06:41Z

So we’ve been together one year, and let me tell you it’s been a journey. A lot of up and downs. He’s been in relationships before where as I haven’t, he’s my first ever boyfriend. So I will give him credit, I do have a lot to improve on to be a better partner. I think the first year together is always the hardest because you’re getting used to each other. Anyways, we got in a little disagreement recently and he mentions that all his friends (who I met only a handful of times) don’t like me. I’ve never gotten that vibe from them and can’t think of a reason why cause I’ve always been respectful and chill. He tells me they know about all our fights and our personal issues and so then the fight escalated into a bigger problem. He says they see how I treat him too…and that now even his coworkers which he barely knows that well don’t approve of me based off hearing about our fights. My boyfriend has done a lot of toxic things to me that my friends know about and have never judged him nor talked badly about him. And I don’t go airing out his dirty laundry often unless it’s something I really need to vent about. So I guess my question is how do I go about this information in a healthy way and do you think it’s ok for friends and family members, coworkers to be in his ear about me this much? Do I have a right to be upset?

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red324 Follow
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That's practically all you girls do with one another

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Anonymous
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Its normal for people to need someone to talk to. Especially if its his friends or family.

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You do it lol 😆 m so stop being a hypocrit. You're just mad that his friends don't like you

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Shy_Steve Follow
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Usually it's not a good idea, But Women do it with their Girlfriends aswell anyway.

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Anonymous
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Do you talk to other girls about issues you two have? If so, then there is no difference.

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- Monalisa77
  
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  To coworkers?
  
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LaFemmeFatale_1 Follow
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Nope…

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elizamichale1 Follow
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Don't we do that too huhh

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SUMAIREBRAHIM Follow
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No it's red flag confront him right away

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elianmuse Follow
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It’s not a good idea to me.

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butterly248 Follow
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Nope

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Not at all

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grega239 Follow
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Not really.

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