Why he still wasn’t happy?

[Anonymous]

I did my best. What do I do? I gave my early 20s to 2 men and I live the regret everyday. My youth is gone. I was never going out, not in touch with family, not looking good or feeling good, not letting anyone see me, I had to ask permission to eat and shower, my apartment was stalked to make sure I wasn’t leaving, I was letting him have his way, I submitted and sacrificed my happiness, etc. and he still picked someone else who he met at the club/studio. He said it’s because “you can have anybody you want men still look at you you didn’t change” he said it takes 3 years to fully break a woman down and me giving everything up for a year and 3 months wasn’t enough. he also told me to get a back bone and do wherever I want like a grown woman should when I followed his rules. He threw it back in my face and said that I’m a desperate people pleaser and did everything a nigga said. The other guy said that the sexiest woman to a man is a woman does whatever she wants. He also said I can have anyone I want so he didn’t take things seriously. They keep using me being able to have someone else against me.
In the end I was so broken when I did all that and didn’t get picked to the point where I had to get therapy. Why wasn’t it enough. I did everything they wanted and they get still found a fault and said other men want me so go there. Why?

[JacobJordan]

so you got into a relationship with not one but 2 very toxic guys. why do you care if he is happy? he treated you like shit based on your own words. you gotta look in the mirror and figure out what you want. also if you are still in your 20s all isn't lost though if you don't figure out your own life quickly it will make things harder. believe in yourself. find happiness in yourself. the rest will work itself out

[Uby10000]

Hang on the therapy, this really sounds like a nasty life. All i can say is to not give up on life and slowly move on, things will change for the better if we keep going. You are also emotionally scarred so don't be afraid to ask for help to anyone

[LazerBean]

Because they are mentally ill and cannot be pleased. They just stayed with you for a while because for whatever low iq reason you were mentally weak enough to have them

[Anonymous]

First of all, if the age in your profile is correct, your youth is not gone.

I;m sorrry that happened to you. There are bad men in this word. Don't date them. Notice the red flags and run teh other way.

I hope you find a good man who will treat you well. There are plenty of us around. Just keep you eyes wide open.

[AydenHazor]

Standing up for yourself is a good thing. Set healthy boundaries at the beginning of a relationship and don't let anyone manipulate and groom you for abuse