“What works for you may not work for others”, what are your thoughts on this?

[Anonymous]

Me and my friends with benefits have been seeing each other for over 7 years no matter what relationship we been in we could never stay away from each other. We been through a lot together, I even was pregnant with his child before and terminated it due to our relationship just being exactly what it is. He was hurt because i made the decision behind his back but we managed to move on. In the mist of that we had children with other people but still found our way back to each other. I tried to move on and even blocked him on everything because i wanted to be a good woman to my fiancé at the time but my friends with benefits reached out to me through his cousins facebook and i met up with him and yeah….. He’s the best drug i ever had a habit I refuse to quit because even when i try to run away if he sends for me I’ll be right back in his arms. I know people are big on being monogamous but are long term lovers everlasting?

[Sonorous]

I think that quote is something many people overlook when comparing themselves to others or comparing others to themselves. I think it's a vital perspective to have.

[Jamie05rhs]

For fuck's sake. Why don't you just marry him already?