How easily do you get emotionally attached to someone // get feelings for them? What causes it for you?

[KezHarris]

Yes I get emotionally attached easily

No, I don’t get emotionally attached easily

Depends

Other

[PrincessBunBuns]

it really depends on the person. i find myself more emotionally invested in somebody who is independent and firm in what they want. ill begin emotionally investing, but i won't be heartbroken if we’re not officially dating. i used to do that and it wasn't healthy, so now… it takes some time. at least longer than a month.

[Anonymous]

No I don't get emotionally attached easily. I've worked very hard to be that way. It's just the best way to be. Most women want to know you so they can know how to work you. I mean as far as she knows I'm infatuated with her. I let her believe what she wants to believe I'm thinking. But generally what I'm thinking is very different. That way when she thinks she's got you and tries to pull that manipulation noose tight. My head isn't even in it. And her motivations are fully exposed. And then they tend to respond the same way. Because when they learn they put all that work in and you're immune to their manipulation they get really mad.

Trust is EARNED. There's no way around that. The only way a woman gets genuine emotion from me is by earning that.

[lightbulb27]

yes, the sub conscious mind is seeking fulfillment from them. There is familiarity between the two. It isn't always good though, you have to backup and figure out what is going on... it will be revealed in time anyways.

[Maxiebleu]

I get attached really easy that I can’t control in my opinion. Usually like a few weeks. But it something doesn’t work out between me and the other person it’s usually hits me really really hard and I find it harder to deal with heartbreak and get over that person. Mostly in relationships but friendships too.

[OlderAndWiser]

Sex always complicates casual relationships.

[mandyfire98]

It depends for me. I can get attracted to someone fairly easily if I find them attractive obviously. If I have a lot of sexual chemistry with someone I can get lustful towards that person. But as far as actual romantic feelings, that takes a bit to develop.

[bobalife]

Depends. If I’m emotionally connected, the person is attentive, caring, sincere, and makes me feel like I’m whom they really want. But if he just wanna explore others and not really sincere, I get turn off and it’s the opposite.

[Avcfhcic]

I think it's because I have very little interaction with women that whenever I do, I get attached to them quite quickly from just simple conversation. Even if I'm not physically attracted at first I can get attracted if I enjoy their company and chit chat.

I find it can effect me because all of the time the girl doesn't feel the same way and I overthink the situation.

[RebelinSteel]

It varies a lot, with some I just don’t, then others it’s like a switch was thrown and it’s full on emotional attachment.

[Katebfun]

I don't get attached easily when we don't have sex. Once there is consistent sex, the bonding hormones kick in. I've learned that and if they are not good for me I walk away.

[Kaneki05]

Very easy, I get limerence very often so I become attached seeing them as the best. I would say it's unhealthy but it's also just me, my mind often thinks about people way more than they are thinking about me.

[EmyyWolf]

If he’s hot, I get emotionally attracted really fast and really strongly. I couldn’t handle getting hurt by someone hot.
Unless the 🍆, is small.

Then Idgaf 🖕😎🖕

[TopDCO]

It's depends on individuals, you get emotional feelings for some without a definite reason because your spirit connect, which means something common with both parties that is unseen.

Some emotional feelings comes from likes such what you can define, it may be through character or through something you like that the person possess e. g skill.

[Simslover92]

I get easily emotionally attached to someone I really like because it takes a lot for me to open up to someone and give them a chance. So when I do, I'm all in and get really attached fast.

[sawno]

Easily is a difficult term, it happens effortlessly if I genuinely like someone. But if I don't I won't ever reach that stage.

[Monalisa77]

I wouldn't say emotionally attached, but a guy strokes ny hand and im smiling like a chesire cat, make of that what you will😂😂

[Monalisa77]

It doesn't make me easy tho, i give as good as i get unless theyre genuine n go the long haul!

[IslaTheWitch]

I take my time... I don't like to rush things. I observe and get to know better at a natural pace, with a lot of smiles and laughter 😃

[Altheavas]

Could you explain me too here any better!

[DreamLife7]

I dont get easily attached. That's an insecure people thing

[Jessikaah91]

I get emotionally attached really quickly which causes me to fall for someone really quick, causing a lot of heartbreak in the past.

[iFarted]

It's hard for me to get initially get emotionally attached, but once I start it goes from 0-100... It happens often when we have really good chemistry and conversations are easy.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It takes me a short period, I guess, when things are going good.

[LiamJHayden]

With friendships I can get attached easily. With romance I am cold and calculating as to whether or not she is worth the effort.

[Emeraudebaba]

No need sometimes people need to control their desires for seeking be loved

[systemsareyo]

Depends if she's hot and her personality hotter 🔥🥵