So after being in a toxic relationship for 2 years I honestly felt hurt not because of the end of the relationship but because the waste of 2 years that’s a long time but also developmental steps backwards. So essentially I tell her it was a waste because your supposed to grow and not take steps backwards and I can’t highlight anything that I have gotten out of this except for stress and grief and she goes you got your dick sucked. I respond seriously and just walk away because it’s absolutely ridiculous that she considers that the end all be all.
Bro, that's whack as hell what she said to you. So disrespectful.
Just cuz you had some physical moments don't mean the whole thing wasn't trash. Like you said, a relationship's supposed to make you better not break you down.
For her to only see it as "you got your dick sucked" like that's all that matters shows her mindset is immature af. Like sucking d ain't a cure-all for all the stress and grief a toxic situation brings.
She clearly ain't hearing you out at all and minimizing your real feelings. You don't need that gaslighting bullshit in your life.
I'd say just forget about tryna explain further to her closed mind. You know your truth - two years wasted depressing time you'll never get back. That's valid as hell.
Better off walking away than wasting breath on someone not willing to see outside their own box. You doin the right thing distancing yourself bro. Now go live your best life free of that!
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Nah she is not done she will come back to play with her toy! Probably throwing a fake relationship to get you jealous!
These people don't care deeply at all about others
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she sounds so immature wow
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