Do you think an extravert and an introvert are a good match?

[Kulotz]

Do you think an extravert and introvert would be a good fit? I think they might be because introverts always have an extravert with them when they socialize. What do you think?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My wife is an introvert (INFP) while I'm an extrovert (ENFP) and it's difficult for me to imagine a better match (and I dated around quite aggressively for a while to draw a number of comparisons).

That said, my wife is a very sociable introvert and quite the social butterfly. She can navigate her way effortlessly around social events and really enjoys interacting with people as I do.

A major difference is that she does start to get tired socializing after a few hours. I want to go all day and night. My wife relaxes in an introverted way sipping wine in the hot tub and reading her favorite book. I relax in the extroverted way partying with my friends. So we have to compromise on that but I think the compromise brings us to a healthy balance where we neither spend too little nor too much time at social events.

Another is that I'm very spontaneous and think on my feet but poor at making long-term plans. My wife isn't very spontaneous and thinks much more methodically and likes to plan things out but panics when things aren't going to plan. We balance each other out that way as well where we reach a compromise where we neither over plan nor under plan things, leaving enough room to deviate from the plan as needed but still having enough of a concrete plan to follow.

[Yannae]

There are probably cases where that will work out, but I'm not one of them. I go on dates with her, because I want to and not feel like I Have to. She's also introverted and since we don't go out often, it's extra special when we do go out. Friday today, I'm going to her, I don't feel like doing anything special, I could just let music play and lay on bed and relax, and she'll just join me, snuggled up for an hour just enjoying the moment. I don't know if an extravert would be happy with that, me wanting to stay home and chill. She'd be mad, she'd probably count the days that have passed since our last date.

[Kulotz]

it is very cute

[Yannae]

Thank you! It's just one of those moments where nothing needs to be said, just enjoying being together in peace.

[Anonymous]

Depending on whether their communication works.
In any relationship clear pindaatjes should be established. For both parties.
If you don't respect their decisions and try to persuade the other into doing what they don't desire, it won't be a good match.

[sheikalana]

They can be as long as they’re easily adaptable people.

[Kulotz]

yes you are right adaptability is very importany

[Artificial Intelligence]

Diving into the extravert-introvert romance ocean, I must say it's like mixing a cocktail – it could end up being the most tantalizing mix or leave you a little dizzy! 🍹 On one hand, opposites attract, right? The extravert brings the party to the introvert's calm, creating a beautiful balance. Picture this: the extravert being the social butterfly, spreading those vibes, while the introvert offers a cozy nest for deep, soulful conversations.

However, it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Communication is key! 🗝️ Both must openly discuss needs and boundaries. Imagine navigating a dance floor where one loves the spotlight and the other prefers the shadows. It's all about finding that rhythm together.

So, yes, an extravert and an introvert can be a match made in heaven, with a dash of understanding and a sprinkle of patience. Have you experienced this dynamic duo? Or maybe you're curious to try? Let's chat and share the love (or the learning curve)! 💑

[HawkPerception]

Extroverts and introverts are one of the few things that don't really matter when it comes to chemistry in a relationship.

If you're both extroverted, it means you'll both like socializing, being outgoing, meeting people and partying.

If you're both introverted, you'll both enjoy times indoors in a cozy setting and enjoying each other's company and being intimate.

And if one of you is an extrovert and the other is an introvert, you'll be able to take each other out of each other's comfort zones and show each other the best of both worlds.

There's relationships of all types when it comes to this dynamic.

[JoePro_]

Depends on if, despite their personality type, they're able to find middle ground with the other person. Introvert doesn't drag the extrovert down, and extrovert doesn't place the introvert into situations with unnecessary social pressure.

[lightbulb27]

no I think long term it's difficult to manage because the needs of one conflict with the needs of the other. There is no changing it, so you have to accept. Can be worked out and managed, but takes effort.

[NathanDavis]

one of my exes was, so yes...

a couple of my best friends are... so it is definitely a yes...

[OtterMan68]

not really as when they go to parties, one will want to leave early, and the other will want to stay late. I can see it causing problems in social situations.

[WhitneySnow]

They can be, but it really depends on the people

[laly520]

depends on couple
it doesn't work out for everyone

[Nikki1989]

I would think they would clash with each other.

[KrakenAttackin]

Sure as long as they respect each other's needs/limitations.

[Anonymous]

Nope! Introverts don't like going out and extroverts hate staying in.

[Account]

I wouldn't want to be with an extrovert.

[Dongie]

Yep. The attraction of opposites.

[Rnjura]

I'm introverted and I would prefer an introvert.

[12karen]

Yeah

[LavLavLuv]

Sure ya

[jimmy2]

Might be