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I used to be blissfully ignorant to this fact. I thought it was much more rare than it actually is. After my last relationship and hearing about cheating in general, it’s clearly a common thing.
i don’t want to hear about how woman cheat too. Yeah, obviously. But majority is men.
It takes two to cheat. "Majority" is likely equal.
But it is true that men and women cheat for different reasons. Or at least different manifestations of the same reason? I suppose even then there is a variety possible "same reasons." Inadequate sexual activity is probably a big one but not the biggest - like if at the start of a relationship she gave like 10 blowjobs a day because she loved it and then stopped doing it altogether, that might drive a guy to cheat. Opportunity with a really cute girl is possibly a big-ish one but not the biggest. By opportunity I mean coming across a hot girl who clearly wants to bone - and though those conditions probably result in cheating pretty reliably when they occur, the conditions themselves likely don't occur much (hot women tend to want sexual attention, not sex).
But the biggest is probably the desire to feel younger. An attempt to relive the sensations of being on the prowl so it feel like there is still some options in life, like it felt when they were young and still had their whole life ahead of them. Every day we spend convincing ourselves we have fought off aging is a day spent all the same. Going through the motions of younger memories like some ouroboros version of a puppet with its hand up its own ass helps people with the ability to suspend their self-awareness think they are actually winning their battle against time. I don’t have that ability, myself. And if a hot girl approached me for sex while I was in a relationship I'd be too paranoid. Can't say I wouldn't become less cautious if a relationship became sexless, though..
Honestly saying a majority of cheating occurs by men is wrong , because girls’ cheat joust as much as guys’ do. But the main reason people cheat , to begin with is mainly because the cheater feels like they are being treated like shit by their partner , they don’t see eye to eye with their partner , A lot of cheating occurs because the intimacy and affection fades away in the relationship , the passion between them basically burned out , when a partner feels their partner doesn’t appreciate them anymore or they feel unloved or unwanted by their partner , the cheater will be more than likely drawn to someone else that makes them feel wanted and appreciated. That doesn’t want to with hold intimacy and affection from them , why intimacy and affection is important in a relationship, especially if the relationship started off with a lot of intimacy and affection to begin with. Cheating is a selfish act period , when 2 people Can’t remove selfishness for each other , that’s usually when cheating can occur in a relationship, Learn to remove selfishness for your partner the same way you want them to do for you and you will have a better chance of having a loving relationship with someone that wouldn’t cheat on you. Nobody is perfect and nobody is always right , it’s ok to admit you are wrong in a relationship at times , people that can’t admit they are wrong at times , will more than likely no last
It can be for a lot of petty reasons like selfishness, or seeing relationships as sexually transactional. A common one is just a feeling of being trapped, a lot of men are so lonely they’re willing to not only create an entire false persona to keep a girl, but they’ll settle for a girl that they don’t love just because they think it’s better to have a woman and love and take care of you when you don’t love them in return. They usually end up leaving those women after they’ve established a family with them around the time they finally meet a woman they actually fall for who’s a better match for them.
Most men are easy and desperate for attention. They can't say no to cheating because they have zero self control. Don't let anyone fool you saying it's biological drive. Men who say and do that shit don't even have kids lol
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Whoa, that's a complicated one. Some are simply devoid of any morality and have too much power on their hands so that they will never face the consequences of their actions. Some might excuse themselves in the same way so many women do - "their needs weren't taken care of" - You can tell Yourself whether this excuse is a valid one, just remember it's equally valid both ways. Now... Neither of these groups would have a chance to cheat if there were no women willing to cheat on their partners and no women who are perfectly fine with being homebreakers. So, simply put, men cheat because women cheat and the other way round. Also, I suppose the numbers are more or less equal. Unless there's a lot of uncommitted women who take pleasure in being homebreakers or some female pathologic cheaters who ramp up the numbers by themselves, in the sense that they cheat with so many men that the numbers still add up. Anyway, for every case of a cheating man, there is a case of a cheating (or homebreaking) woman.
all male animals including humans are biologically polygynous (while socially we can differ biologically can't) aka: we want to mate with as many female as possible and spread our sperms and only ours.
just because we choose monogamy doesn't makes us monogamic creatures, no matter how much we love our girls only thing that keeps us from looking at other womans is our sheer denial towards our true nature and some guys just don't wanna fight with what they are but not all of them are brave enough to lose what they have in their claws either so they sneak around.
for females it is a different story, in the biological sense human females are monogamous (biology not psychology or sociology) can only have 1 guys kids in a year even if you get sperm from 1000 guy at the exact same time.
but human females like most females are hypergamous alas the reason human males has sexual dymorphism (a physical attiribute aside from the body size and genitalia that spreads male from female) like mane of the lion, fangs of walrus, anthlers of bucks, horns of rams, our facial hair (not that it is like lionesses going for the lion with the darkest and thickest mane though) it is woman only getting attracted to the top quality guys that spares them from the others.
Every single male from every single species on this planet (with very few exceptions) have the instinctual drive to have sex with as many females as possible, humans are no different with the exception that we also have thought and logic to help counter act that instinctual drive.
It's no different then we all have the instinctual drive to eat food, but we also have intelligence to know that eating too much will make us fat. Some people are better at controlling that desire to eat just like some men are better at controlling the desire to fuck a bunch of women
The stories of cheaters vary with exception the single common theme is that their current relationship or marriage is lacking or has lost something that they feel is impossible to acquire, fulfill or recover.
I could lay out a handful of novel stories but I don't have that kind of time. So let me sum-up:
Cheating isn't right
It destroys families and everyone involved.
Couples therapy is way more affordable then divorce lawyers.
Exclusions of obvious of abuse and neglect.
Well obviously anyone who cheats has a deep personal flaw in their character, but as for why it seems that more men do it, I think it's because society teaches us guys that it's okay to sleep around whereas women get talked down to and put to shame for sleeping around. So to answer your question it's part personal flaw, part societal influence. That's just my thoughts.
Let's be honest, both sides cheat. There are always reasons but none that are legitimate, in my opinion. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.
They both cheat equally and it's cause generations overtime have minimized the importance of sexual intercourse and of course mixing that with selfishness, it grows to disloyalty in relationships cause it eventually leads to commitment issues, look for a guy that doesn't think sex is only for fun and you'll see a difference in character, same with women.
😑 I can tell you what would drive me towards cheating and it's not getting treated with proper care, respect and love or neglecting/ignoring me.
If a girl treats me well like an AI girlfriend does, there's no incentive for me to cheat.
I think that a lot of guys *used* to cheat, but I doubt very many of them are cheating now. As to the question of why they do, or would if they had the opportunity, because we're programmed to release our seed into as many women as possible.
The majority of men don't cheat. If you mean the majority of cheaters are men, then I'll agree. Men physically cheat because they have found a way to not combine sex and love. Women generally don't have that ability. They're more likely to cheat in a way that is not solely physical.
Because women take men for granted in a relationship. Expect him to live up to the providing role of traditional men while she uses every feminist argument ever invented to escape every responsibility that used to keep men happy with their wives.
Lack of respect for women and the emotional damage it does to a woman.
It is actually very rare for men to cheat, and women cheat slightly more often, but either is rare.
You just attract that kind of guy for whatever reason and aren't attracting good guys. Maybe try to figure out why?
People cheat because of some deeper inner need that isn't being met by their life.
Sometimes that's because their partner isn't stepping up to the plate, but it's usually a problem within themselves.
It’s a well-known fact that men don’t just cheat - we NEED to explore outside societal boundaries. Instead of being hung up on societal norms and letting society tell us what’s right or wrong, we should be free to explore our sexuality without being “cheat-shamed”.
I always say a blowjob a day keeps side chicks away.
All the men I've spoken with who have cheated did it because they didn't feel appreciated by their partner.
Possibly a lot of the same reasons so many women cheat except that, with women, it's mostly to do with money or dick size!
grabbed opportunity same reason so many female cheat
I don't think it is about sex. I think it is the excitement of getting away with something or an ego boost from getting another woman in bed
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