What goes through your mind when you see someone of opposite gender that is physically much better than your current partner?

[Anonymous]

This question would be more relevant to people who are not married/not very close with their partner yet

I guess I'm insecure that's what made me ask this

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[OlderAndWiser]

1. If you were married to Jessica Alba or Natalie Portman, there would still be - there will ALWAYS be - other women prettier than your wife. A relationship with a spouse is not based on we're-married-because-she's-the-prettiest-girl-on-the-planet. Love is based on so many more things.

Frankly, when I see a beautiful girl, I usually think briefly about how sexually desirable she is, but I never consider making the slightest movement to communicate that thought at all. I am engaged, I am happy, and I have promised my fiancee faithfulness, and chasing after sex with a pretty girl is a horrible reason to end a great relationship!

2. Lust is based on physical beauty but a woman's value to me is based on so much more that just her appearance. There is an expression, "For every good looking girl walking down the street, there's a guy somewhere who got tired of fucking her." It's crude but adequately communicates the idea: what may attract you to a woman initially will probably not be enough to keep you in a relationship with her.

[RebelinSteel]

I don’t just go off physical and if I’m dating them, everyone is pretty much background noise. I accept that there are far better looking girls in the world than the one I am dating, that is just being realistic and I don’t really care, it’s about the person you are in a relationship with.

[Flatmanlewis]

Absolutely.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't have a partner, but for a future partner I wouldn't think too much about it. Could I be looking at someone because I notice they're attractive? Yes. But not the reason people might think. But I wouldn't ever prefer them over my partner, as I don't know that person.

[jennifer_bloom]

If I like a guy I will see flaws in other guys so that their good looks are neutralized.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the age-old tangle of physical attraction versus deep emotional bonds! When eyeballs catch a glimpse of someone who might check all those superficial boxes, it's like a mini-firework show in the brain. It's human nature to notice beauty and feel that initial spark of attraction, a reminder that our eyeballs work just fine. But here's where the magic of a deep, meaningful connection comes into play. If you've got that bond, that understanding and love with your partner, those fireworks for someone else are just that - brief sparks in the sky. They can’t compare to the constant, warm glow of a committed relationship. Being insecure is a natural feeling, but remember, your partner chose you for a reason, for all the wonderful things you are, inside and out. 🌟 Love is far more than skin deep—it's about finding that person who gets you, supports you, and sticks with you through thick and thin.

[AviatorTom]

If she has a ring on her finger, I'm thinking some guy is very lucky. With no ring, I'm thinking that some guy is going to be very lucky.

[Dinklex3]

I don’t look at other people like that and compare. To me, my significant other is the most attractive.

Never have I ever thought some other man was more attractive than my S. O, even as a child.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't compare. I can take a look at good looking man (in my opinion) but that's all. I wouldn't even remember I saw him after a few minutes.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Ditch the current and for the new lol 😆 I'm sure many think it

[Asker]

jeez

[ChiTown33]

When you love a woman the volume on other women's beauty gets turned way down. It's not that you don't appreciate thier beauty, you do. You're still a heterosexual male. But you love your partner so thier is no physical draw to other women.

[Flatmanlewis]

This!! I absolutely recognize that another woman is beautiful, within my eyesight, but I truly think my wife is just enchanting and captures my fancy more than any other.

[ChiTown33]

@Flatmanlewis 👍👍👍

[LaterZ]

If u keep thinking there might be someone better, ur never going to be happy, because lets be honest, there is always someone better. But u may or may not find them. If u find someone that makes u happy, just grab that and run with it.

[Nikki1989]

I take no notice of the physical appearance of other men.

[EmmaMary]

There's not another man on the planet that comes even remotely close to my husband.

[slatyb]

They are too young for me. I rarely see a woman close to my age who is more attractive than my wife.

[KrakenAttackin]

There will always be someone "hotter", but if your partner has the kindness, intellect, femininity, and faithfulness, you want; a "hotter" person is just a brief second of eye candy.

[exitseven]

Not much. I look at her and can appreciate how she looks but one thing gas nothing to smdo with the other

[JHAYES317]

Don’t have a girlfriend and never have, but hypothetically it wouldn’t change a thing…I’d be with my partner for who she was a person…not how big her boobs were…

[Aiko_E_Lara]

"I would need more time to know her better because I didn't just meet my girlfriend and magically got in a relationship"

So this is why I have my own unique personal standards.

[laly520]

I don't really care or notice
I'm only attracted to my fiance

[Anonymous]

I have to agree with "Brad." LMAO

Who thought that AI would be a good idea?