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My Husband's Best Friend Told Me That He's In Love With Me. What Should I Do? (Page 2)
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You should tell him you feel uncomfortable around him. This is going beyond friendship level. Unless your husband likes that his friends like you, but he is stopping him from having you
I've tried to tell him on three different occasions but I've been dismissed each time. I'm just going to focus on my studies so it doesn't bother me so much. Thank you for your help! 🤓📚
Long time... congrats on marriage.
You need to simply tell them all off. Go off on them and then disassociate with them. Take yourself out of the situation.
Thank you so much! You are very kind. I know you are right but I am struggling with being more assertive but I'm definitely going to try my best! Thank you for your help.
You are welcome. They will have to know they are out of line one way or another.
But they do know. They are VERY aware of what they're doing and if they're not then it's just their pure instincts getting the best of them. But honestly they know because they laugh about it. It just seems like no one cares that they're overstepping and my voice isn't being heard. It's incredible frustrating.
Maybe a serious talk with the husband is in order. Definitely do not be in their presence.
Will do! I really appreciate your help. Thank you 🙆♀️
You are welcome!
Huge red flag. Don’t go. Also, speak to your husband again, but more adamantly.
Thank you so much for the awesome feedback! I really appreciate your help 🩷
You’re welcome 💕
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The only thing that I can say. If your husband knows what these guys are saying to you and making you feel uncomfortable. He doesn’t do anything about them. Does he really love you?
He loves me I'm sure! I just think he loves his friends too and couldn't imagine them betraying his trust. Which I completely understand but these are not my friends so I can see them for who they really are. Which are snakes or a wolf in sheep clothing.
@Secret6620. I feel for you. Your husband is allowing his friends to cause problems within your marriage and apparently doesn’t see it. I hope that his friends don’t cross the line with you. Good luck, Secret!
Thank you! 🩷
u need to tell ur husband everything n see how it will goes
Absolutely! Thank you for you help! 😇
Try talking to your husband about it.
Will do! Thank you. ✨
You're Welcome @Secret6620
Tell those horny bastards to go find their own women. Bring some of your girl friends around to distract them, too
Giggles! I wish I had some girlfriends to hang with. Most women tend not to like me for some reason so I always end up hanging out with the guys in the end or by myself.
If u truly love ur husband u should tell ur husband
Thank you for your help beautiful! ✨🌹
Your welcome
Tell your husband directly about what’s happening, what are you waiting for? If he didn’t take action, leave this piece of shit
This is the third time that I have gone to him on the matter.
So today, he is back on the "you're just paranoid" and "my friends just think you're pretty, they think you're cool, and that it's harmless." His lack of discernment puts himself in danger and he won't let me protect him.
*Sighs*. 😞 Thank you for your help. But just forget I asked this question. Nothing will change.
Tell you husband he said it and block him from both your lives
I want to block him and my husband agreed to blocked him but he changed his mind. I'm just trying to respect his wishes. I'll be okay. It's not a big deal. At least I tried.
Who changed his mind? You mean your husband changed his mind on you shouldn't block him?
Yes, he doesn't want to block him anymore. He's been hanging out with them all day and they're in his ear. I know they are. Because he was on my side until he went to hang out with them last night.
But I can protect myself, I just wish he would trust my judgement.
Yeah but kinda weird for him to tell you. I would block him if i were in your situation but you choose
I'm still blocking his friends but I'm going to wait until they are on they're flights home just in case.
His best friend has already threatened to come into my bed like it was a joke but it's not funny. It's scary for me.
Yeah you should tell him
Talk to your husband and avoid said friends as much as you can in the meanwhile. You should not be subjected to this situation,
Yes! Will do. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts on this topic. Very reassuring!
Lol look who's back on the site
So you decided to unblock all the people you've blocked?
I don't really know who to unblock to be honest. It's been a while since I've connected with everyone. To be honest, many people on this app have been cruel to me, unprovoked and it traumatized me.
So I'm protecting my spirit, peace, and my soul from those who wish to cause me harm for no reason except being evil and hateful.
Just curious, Mr. Anonymous... Who do I have blocked specifically that wishes to be unblocked? I am open to giving second chances so long as my boundaries are not disregarded.
That's understandable, especially when someone's being rude or mean to you. Except you blocked half the site, even people you had never interacted with, or good people like Amanda, Emma, Liam, Daniela1982 or Coach
I completely understand! 🤗🩷
But Coach was one of the most cruelest to me. I don't know if he thinks bullying is the way to a woman's heart but it isn't. I cried a lot because of his smear campaign against me. I even had to get the mods involved because the harassment was causing me severe depression. I got paranoid and blocked anyone who associated with people who hated me for no reason. I even made it my mission to reach out to him and try to find common ground. I let him know that I have never trolled his accounts and wasn't out to get him. We had a heart to heart and then a few weeks later, he began to bully me passive aggressively again, unprovoked.
He's the alpha on this site, I get it, but I'm not competing with him. I'm here to form meaningful connections and get assistance with the thoughts that weigh heavily on my mind. Anyone who disturbs my innocent fun should just leave me alone. My spirit causes no harm to any one on this site and I'd rather have five good people in my corner that 25000.
I sat back and watched people on this site who I thought I formed bonds and connections with completely betray me. It is the MOST disappointing feeling and I would rather just be alone then keep putting my heart out there for the world to step on it.
But on a positive note, I will unblock each person listed except for Coach. I am not allowing anyone in my energy that wishes to cause me harm simply for existing. Maybe if I was white I'd be more acceptable for him but who knows. I'm just a brown girl minding her business 🤷♀️
Second thought, God has just advised me to be more forgiving. I unblocked Coach but if I get a sniff of bullying or anything mean or aggressive towards me, I will block him just as quick as I unblocked him. I'm done dealing with men's crap on this app. If I'm not hurting anyone then why bully me? Does me being truly happy in life really bother People's demons that much? It's heartbreaking to say the least. But karma is my shield for anyone who attempts to unjustly harm me in anyway going forward.
Lastly, three of the names I couldn't find their accounts can you link their accounts so that I can find them more easily
I'm very sorry that this happened to you. I hope you’re feeling better now.
Tbh I had no idea about any of this stuff. I had just heard some rumors by people that you blocked a lot of people for not agreeing with you and that you used to copy old questions from other users, that's why you lost your Influencer badge.
If that's the case, I don't blame you for wanting to protect your mental health. This site is supposed just for entertainment and a safe place for everyone.
On second thought, maybe it's not such a good idea to unblock him, as I believe I had seen him mentioning you in a question a few weeks ago. It appears like he has some kind of obsession with you. I don't know, that's kinda weird
Now that you mentioned it, I can't find AmandaVR either. Maybe she's left the site. Here's the other user I mentioned
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/emmamary
Exactly! Those rumors were AWFUL lies. I gave up my influencer status for privacy and it was the best decision I ever made. My DMs are private, my account is private, and my peace is protected. No more demon trolls, no more spawns of Satan, ONLY normal, loving, everyday people are allowed near my energy.
It was the BEST thing to do for my mental health because I don't have to defend myself against low vibrational people who aren't even ascending into heaven in their lifetime. I have everything I ever wanted plus more so I don't feel envy or jealousy towards others because they don't have anything I want.
I am not sure who you are, but be assured that you don't know who I am. And whatever you heard has been a ploy to ruin a reputation that can't be ruined because it's protected by God's light and love. He got his karma for messing with a child of God. And he will continue to get karma until he repents for his sins. That's all.
Great question! I've been needing to get that out for about three years. I have forgiven everyone on this site who attacked me for no reason but now they will have to take it up with God because in short, he's pissed and the reaping has already begun. Man reaps what he sows~Galatians✝️
Karma walks the earth 🌍
Amen.
He mentioned me in a question? I literally just came back after like 3yrs 🙊. That's really scary but God has instructed me to give him another chance. I pray he makes better choices this time around. For his safety 🙏
Matter a fact, you should link the question here. He has me blocked so he can bully me in peace I suppose 😂 I'm definitely intrigued by his obsession. It's the most bizarre thing.
He treats me like trash because he's obsessed with me? I'm really glad that I'm a Historian of Philosophy because my book is going to be incredible! Like, you can't make this stuff up. 📚
Exposing the wickedness in this world really appeals to me! Fascinating 🦋✝️
That sounds like such a healthy mindset to have.
We should always be kind and forgiving to others, like God has also forgiven us, as this can be therapeutic and can lead to better emotional and mental health without excusing the harm that was done to us though. It's just letting go of what they did.
Anyway, you sound like a very educated, kind and positive person judging by your comments, so these rumors must definitely be fake. I can see why people would be jealous of someone like you
And that's a bit sketchy that he has you blocked. I'll see if I can find the question and post the link; it's an old one from a weeks ago.
Thank you! I'm a recovering people pleaser and I'm done being walked all over just because I'm kind. Kindness is NOT a weakness and nothing will ever change that about me. 🩷✨🌹
With friends like that who needs enemies? I would question their loyalty as friends for sure and maybe try and get them to put it in writing so you can show him his own true “friends”!
Just go out with them and enjoy everything 😉.
Obviously your husband is okay with that
Thank you for your guidance! You rock 🎸
Always
should tell your husband.. if he say threesome like divorce him also... move away those friends
I understand. I don't want to divorce him though, I just want my boundaries to be respected and a little more freedom if that makes sense. But I will definitely try to talk to him again for sure.
Thank you for your help! 😇
have a great day
You too! ✨
just divorce and get the guy you love who loves you.
Maybe they want a gangbang.
Dear God! I hope not ⛔
You might like it. You will never know until you try it.
*Twiddles fingers* I don't know, I don't think God would be particularly happy about a gangbang with a married woman. I mean if it was okay with God then I don't mind trying something at least once in my lifetime but there's no real word of God on threesomes or gang bangs but he does not shun sexuality or women with a healthy sexual appetite. I have a lot to think about. I never even considered a gangbang. One man seems like more than enough you know what I mean. I mean what do that other guys do in a gangbang anyways? Do they just watch and wait til it's their turn. If so, that sounds terrible boring for the men involved lol 😆
No girl. They take turn on you. Sometime you get two D in you and one in the mouth.
Oh my goodness 😳🙊🙈!!!
That doesn't sound logical at all. Two at once? Like two in one vagina? That can't be a thing ahahaha 😂🙈 That is insane. I thought the vagina only contracted large enough during childbirth. So are you saying that we can contract to fit two men at once without being pregnant?
If so, that's insane. I'm googling it now. I learn so much stuff from this site 😆🙈
Google pulling a train.
Googling it now!!! Girllllllll what the heck am I watching!!! This is insane!!! Jesus Christ... Ahahaha *Covers eyes* 😂😳🙊🙈😱😶🌫️
It's really a thing!!! I thought you were just joking around ahahaha 😂🤣🙈🙈🙈🙈
Are you attracted to him at all?
No. I am not. He is not a good friend to my husband.
Then I think you should tell him you're not interested, and if he persists in pestering you, tell your husband.
Will do! Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts 💭! I really appreciate it 🩷
Yes, ma'am, you're welcome. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.
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You can't blame me for asking, can you? After all, you're just drop dead gorgeous, that's all;)
I wish! You are too kind. I am definitely NOT drop dead gorgeous. Just awkward and weird lol 🤓🖖
Does hubby know all this?
Yes, everything but the confession. I don't want to ruin this trip for them. It's not my place. And I'm not physically hurt at all so I don't want to make too big a deal. I just want to protect my husband if they are not good people.
Tell him everything see how he reacts and take things from there
Okay. I will try. Thank you for your help!
It's not his fault you're damn fucking hot 🔥🔥🔥
I'm not hot at all 😂 I'm just a nerd with a people pleasing problem 🤓🙈🩷
You're damn fucking goddess hot 🔥🔥 i know..
After long time babe? 😘
🙊🙈
You're my all time favourite here 😘😘
I can't pm you