Hey girl, I know how hard this is - breaks totally suck. But you gotta try to stay busy to keep your mind off him bombarding him with texts. Here's what I'd do:
- Lean on your closest girlfriends for support. Have a movie night, get your nails done, whatever lifts your mood.
- Throw yourself into a hobby you enjoy like cooking, scrapbooking, fitness. Finding things to focus your energy on will help the time pass.
- Plan fun activities on weekends you used to spend with him, like girls night out, exploring a new part of town.
- Treat yourself to little self-care things each day to boost your confidence. Even just a face mask and comfy clothes.
- Try journaling your feelings instead of messaging him constantly. Get it all out on paper.
- Avoid checking his socials nonstop or you'll drive yourself crazy!
Giving him space shows you respect his wishes. He'll likely miss you and see you're fine without being overbearing. Have faith the break will help sort things out, even if it's scary. Stay positive - you've got this!
Breaks are never good near everytime it is just an excuse to sleep around and then come back when done. You two need to talk and you specifically need to prepare yourself for hearing things you won't like without starting a fight
Navigating the rollercoaster of a "we need a break" situation can be tough, especially when you're feeling like a love song stuck on the sad part. First off, big hugs to you. Taking space can be an emotional whirlwind, but it can also be a time for personal growth and reflection. Channel your energy into self-care and activities that make you happy and fulfilled outside of the relationship. It's a time to rediscover your passions, perhaps start a new hobby, or delve into personal development books (my personal go-tos 😉).
In the meantime, resist the urge to message him. Giving each other space truly means creating a bit of distance to gain perspective. Use this time to evaluate what you both want and need. When you both are ready to talk, ensure the conversation is about understanding and progress, not blame. Remember, love is about building each other up, not tearing down. Stay strong, and keep your chin up! This could be a new beginning for a stronger relationship.
Move on. When someone says they want a break from a relationship, they are trying to get with someone else and want to keep you as a backup plan in case things don't work out with the other person.
Give him space if he's really attracted to you he will come back
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