Do you think love feels sweeter when we’re a bit naive and don’t see all the bad things our partner might do?

[ElenaSeluna]

For example, someone might say, “I wish I had never seen those messages,” or “I wish I never found out about the cheating,” because before they knew, the relationship felt happier…

[Smart_Monk]

You were not looking for this answer. But. It's a disgusting mindset. Believing lies is never a good thing. In fact, the first alternative theory i said about September 10th last year, the fake "murder", on my deleted youtube channel, was, that it was purely a ritual to make everyone believe into a lie. Doesn't matter what you believe as long as what you are madly convinced about is a lie. That's the mindset of dark occultists. They are trying to sever our connection to naturally feeling the truth.

So, it is sick to believe in lies. You lose the sense of truth and you lose morality as a whole. ㅤ

[nolabels]

For the short term, naivete may make love FEEL sweeter, but if things are not as they might seem, the thorns that stab deeply later on will hurt ever deeper than they might if there were to be a bit less naivete involved.

[ElenaSeluna]

I agree.. yeah

[nolabels]

Good luck to ya!

[ElenaSeluna]

To you too 😊

[Screenwriter]

No normal person considers all "the bad things" a partner might do when they're initially in love. Hopefully, a couple has long-term knowledge of each other and deep trust.

Over time we will be confronted with a person's shortcomings and flaws, but that means you're dealing with the same sort of human YOU are: imperfect. What's really sweet is coming to terms with each person's humanity and loving them still.

I'm not talking about serious transgressions, but the minor annoyances that people discover in each other over time. And then laughing about them. There's the honey!

[FreyaRed]

I don't belong to people who feel that way but I noticed that by others. It's likely some kind of hope or wish think. They felt subconsciously something is wrong but they hoped for the best. From psychological ego perspective it's a little bit a game of having feeling of being someone special and something that ended up before many times as failure will be this time better because me being special.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy love feelings and make them make sense for you, babe 💫

Love can feel sweeter when we’re naive, because you’re in a fantasy bubble, totally love-drunk and blind to red flags. But that “sweetness” is fake-sugar sweet. Once truth appears, the past happiness becomes contaminated. Real intimacy needs awareness, not selective blindness. Naivety feels good, but knowledge protects your heart.

[DishLady]

Yes, but then you also get very burned by their poor behavior.

If it's just a few quirks here and there that's fine, but a person who has deep issues... it's good to know before you get in too deep.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

@DishLady Sounds like you've been burned.

[Finchie40]

Love feels sweeter when you are with a non cheating partner , that values you and respects you the same way you do to them , so if they did that shit behind your back , you are best to end it with them and find yourself someone better

[MrChinaski]

You need a big stack of hope to draw on going into a relationship that will see you through until you can work out whether the reality of the relationship brings more pros than cons. Going into a relationship without hope is pointless as you'll never reach that point. Clinging to hope when reality becomes clear is senseless.

[ElenaSeluna]

I agree with you

[Crankor]

When someone says that, its really just saying they wish it didn't happen, not that they didn't know. But if something was so good then why would something so bad happen? You dont have to be naive to really enjoy the experience, just know what the other really wants

[On_cloud_wine]

Why the hell would you even get into a relationship if you felt that way? You can’t act paranoid and make false accusations without evidence. You just come across as as a paranoid jealous possessive bit h

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

As nolabels says, backfire is going to backfire...

Ignorance is bliss? Welp.

[ElenaSeluna]

It is a blessing Sometimes

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

There is something you're not telling then, a missing context lol

[ElenaSeluna]

No😄
This is a hypothetical question and ignorance is a blessing sometimes about some stuff not only about relationships

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Ah I get it now, all right lol

[ElenaSeluna]

Alrighty 😊

[DonaldDarko]

More like when we dont know that the whole thing is brutal reptile level instinct going back to some Cambrian sea. Madness the monster in all of us.

[LiamS95]

I think what you're referring too is more like "Love is Blind:

[ElenaSeluna]

Maybe

[Still-alive]

probably. i didn't really experience that tho :/

[ElenaSeluna]

Good 😊

[MissSunshine2]

Yes, but it’s less about love and more about loving who we want the person to be.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think if you have worked on yourself a lot. It becomes part of the sweetness

[LC75LC71]

Holy shit of course! First loves get the added benefit of discovery and initial experimentation. Then it's usually chasing that and coming up just short.

[beenherebefore]

Love is sweeter when you and your Partner are mature enough to honor your relationship.

[loveslongnails]

Naivety and deception are different things. While it's true that the more naive someone is the easier it is to deceive them, ignorance isn't always bliss when it comes to relationships for most people, in my opinion.

[jahaims]

No, love is sweetest when both partners are mature and don't do immature petty shit

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You mean the infatuation stage?

[ElenaSeluna]

No, I meant in an advanced relationship

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Oh, you mean traumatic nostalgia

[ElenaSeluna]

Wdym

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The nostalgia that comes with the regret of choosing someone who hurt you

[ElenaSeluna]

It’s a hypothetical question.. actually this question applies to other situations in life not only in failed relationships

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The only examples you gave are inherently negative

[ElenaSeluna]

That’s the point.. because I am saying here sometime it’s better to be naive about bad stuff in our lives

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s not naïveté, that’s just ignorance. You can acknowledge that bad things happen and still find joy in new things. If something or someone that once brought you joy no longer does, you can find joy elsewhere

[Bklynbadboy12]

No to me it feels sweeter when you love someone and they love you as much as you love them

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but sooner or later you're gonna find out.

[AngryCarl3]

haha yeah, it's sweet until it isn't.

[ElenaSeluna]

Yeah

[RavVid]

You are never the same after your partner cheats.

[Jonettacali]

Being naive is a disability.

[Alex757]

Honesty is the best policy, always be honest

[Anonymous]

I didn't unterstand what you mean

[fish5505_87]

🤔um? Yes! 🙃