yup, I'm not the jealous type, we're out there. what you're dealing with is a confident man. he knows what he brings to the table and knows that it's your loss if you f*ck things up. it also means he trusts you, even though it's partly because he believes that you should be actively trying not to lose him. I know that sounds rude when you say it out loud, but it's really not. you should actually have the same attitude towards him, it's healthy for you to both feel that way. it sounds meaner than it is, it's just about realizing your own worth and knowing that if this person doesn't work out it's not the end of the world. so you should be glad that your man is like that, because the alternative SUCKS. my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend used to try to BRIBE her to stay in and not go out with her friends. he wrote her a check for $1000 one time not to go out, which ended up being the final straw for her, since the jealousy was completely uncalled for. same guy stalked her until she had to get a restraining order after she left him. dude is a psycho nutjob. you don't want any parts of that. so this is a good thing, it's because he trusts you, not because he doesn't care.
There is a jealous type, and he doesn't seem to be that. If he is then he was trying to not upset you. Which is all understandable. To reassure him nonetheless when you two reunite tell him you love him (or whatever your thing is) and if you guys have sex regularly do that, but try to be more open to what he wants to do. If you two are platonic, skip the sex and do the former.
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I'm not the jealous type at all. We exist, get over it. Not every man is going to pine in your absence.
I think everyone gets a little jealous. He just does not want to come off as the jealous type.
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