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Has feminism poisoned modern dating?

I’ve observed many various feminist groups radfems, swerfs, terfs, etc etc and it seems the one thing that they have in common is not gender equality - it’s their hatred for men ! They might not say it out right but...
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Is this loveboming?

My friend recently started dating this guy and we are all very happy for her however there are some concerns I have. Some background: she is anxious attachment, falls pretty easily. They met on a dating app and jsut...
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Should you make your dating app picture 6/10 or 10/10?

I was listening to the radio this morning and they were talking about dating app pictures. One lady called in to say that she fully believes in taking a dating app photo that presents her as maybe a 6 or 7 rather than a...
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Need advice quick! Going to his house to watch movies at night how do I not be awkward?

So we’ve been on 2 dates so far and talk everyday I was briefly at his place once to meet his cat but tonight I’m going over and we are watching movies and have planned out snacks. We aren’t dating though and I am only...
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Would it be a good idea to gift a painting to my friend, or would that be lathering it on a bit thick?

I'm interested in this girl we'll call Ash. We're not officially dating right now, but it's pointing in that direction soon enough. She's having a hard time right now, and I wanted to do something nice for her to lift her...
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Why is it hard as a 23 yo woman to find a guy who actually wants a relationship?

I took a break from dating after my ex and 2 years later I decided I was ready to go on dates again. But now guys no longer approach or ask on dates. I looked on Reddit and TikTok to see if anyone had any idea why and...
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I don’t understand, why would a great catch like me doesn’t have no guy hitting her up or asking me out?

I may not be the idea woman that is 5’3 or whatever, slim, or whatever but I am studying to be a neuroscientist, kind, sweet, loving, funny, smart, and always have a listening ear when someone is in trouble. Guys are...
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What is your height, and what height do you look for in a partner?

Okay, so this is clearly for both genders. I just want to get an average of what guys' heights are (the average of the guys and girls answering that, not the average of the entire population) so I can get a general idea...
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Why does my friend not hang out with us?

Long story here but I need more opinions on this… A couple years ago, I dated this girl for about a month. After a little bit we decided to just be friends. A year later, she started dating this other guy, who has never...
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How do you get someone to stop bringing up an ex?

I had a situationship with this guy two years ago. He was pretty terrible and treated me horribly. He never wanted a relationship but also didn’t want me dating anyone else. It only felt like he was just chatting to me...
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Why don’t women chase men the way men are expected to chase women?

I’ve always noticed that in dating and relationships, there seems to be this unspoken rule: men are the ones who need to make the first move, approach, initiate conversations, ask for numbers, plan the dates, and...
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Why are my friends and parents telling me to just go out with guy friend and stop rejecting him?

I have a guy friend that I’ve known since 3rd grade. We’re good friends. In middle school he always asked me to be his Valentine and in high school. He kept asking me to school dances and prom. Twice I went with him but...
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Do you believe in the 3 month rule as it applies to women in a relationship? What are your experiences even if you don't follow the rule?

The "3-month rule" in dating suggests that after three months of dating, you should have a clearer idea of whether you want to commit to a relationship with the person you're seeing. It's a guideline, not a strict rule,...
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My girlfriend couldn’t get over her ex. What should I do?

I met her on an online dating platform because for some reason I couldn’t get a girlfriend no matter how hard I have tried. She is my first girlfriend. I asked her if she has an ex. She told me she had one whom was...
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A Personal Reflection: Why I’ve Given Up on Dating in the Post-#MeToo Era

As a man attracted to women, I’ve reached a point where I no longer see the value in pursuing romantic relationships. In my opinion, modern feminism in the post-#MeToo era has profoundly damaged the dating landscape. What...
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Girls, Ladies, what’s something a guy did that made you instantly see him differently (in a good or bad way)?

t’s open-ended, sparks stories, and gets into what really matters beyond just looks or first impressions. Want more ideas or a specific topic (dating, lifestyle, etc.)?
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What are your money making ideas?

I have one idea that can make me richer than a doctor. I have another idea that can make me richer than a Hollywood celebrity. I have another idea that can make me richer than Donald Trump. And none of these ideas involve...
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Is cutting off more fat a good idea before taking dating or love seriously?

Long story short, I'm 31 and never been in a relationship, besides a few first dates many years ago. I've been obese most of my 20s and this affected how I feel about myself. A big reason for low self-esteem was being...
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What do you think of the idea that God might work as a directional funnel in your life?

I feel like God sabotaged my connections to the wrong men because God wanted to reserve me for the right man. And I feel like God sabotaged the wrong ideas I was thinking of developing because God wanted me to develop the...
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What's your flirting style? What's the strangest flirtation you've ever received? What's your biggest flirting blooper?

Hi Guys and Gals! I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday. Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically flirting with most people we grow close...
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Hi Guys and Gals! I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday. Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically Show More
Physical Flirt: Consensually, respectfully use body language + touch to convey interest. (Eye contact, touching someone's arm/hand, standing close, playful teasing to express attraction.)
Sincere Flirt: Expressing genuine interest by getting to know someone better. (Asking qts, listening attentively, showing empathy to build a deeper connection and move to a meaningful relationship.)
Playful/Witty Flirt: Fun, lighthearted clever humor, teasing and bantering. (Jokes, puns, sarcasm, wordplay, witty banter to express attraction and create a relaxed, enjoyable atmosphere, break the ice, or impress and entertain each other.)
Traditional Flirt: Uses stereotypical gender roles and social norms. (A man taking the lead to initiate + pursue a woman (who is coy and demure), which can be charming and romantic but limiting as well.)
Polite Flirt: Courteous and respectful treatment. (Compliments, expressed interest in hobbies/interests, or simply polite and attentive courtesy to show interest without being too forward.)
Subtle Flirt: Understated and indirect use of subtle cues (prolonged eye contact, smiling, or mirroring the other’s body language and mannerisms to express interest without being too overt or pushy).
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