@backdoorman is the way they were raised, to be dependant. If we teach our daughters to be independent, when they grow up they might either pay or split the bill for their dates. Most women are taught to be weak... something that is not right
@SnowHearth That's the type of cop out women use so often to try to explain away their sexism. They don't seem to have the same tolerance for men using the same sort of excuses for their sexism.
Because they're men. It's the way they were designed by God. To be leaders and take care of and provide. If you don't want to pay on a date, then date a dude.
So by that logic with women being the submissive, does that mean that you must give in to sex if the man were to request for it? I have no belief in god by the way.
Correct. I will not pay for the woman that I am with unless I care about her, and I wouldn't care about a woman that I'm trying to get to know. This includes anyone other than close friends or partners.
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Whoever asks must pay, regardless of gender.
Who asks just about all of the time?
all the time, or the majority of the time? don't fall in the falacy of generalization
Very well then. How likely are you to ask out a crush of yours? Or even initiate conversation?
Women rarely ask men out so this response is just a cop out.
@backdoorman Indeed lol
@backdoorman I have asked my SO out and payed for the dates I go with him.
I'm the one who asked my SO out, and the one who proposed.
Oh I know there are exceptions, but very few. This issue is still one about which women are still very sexist and hypocritical.
@backdoorman is the way they were raised, to be dependant.
If we teach our daughters to be independent, when they grow up they might either pay or split the bill for their dates. Most women are taught to be weak... something that is not right
@SnowHearth That's the type of cop out women use so often to try to explain away their sexism. They don't seem to have the same tolerance for men using the same sort of excuses for their sexism.
@backdoorman someone needs to teach them.
@SnowHearth Bullshit. Here in the US they already know.
@backdoorman it looks they don't.
They do, they just refuse to change because they have no reason to. It's what is known as typical western female hypocrisy.
I pay for her as long as she really enjoy it.
Whoever makes more money
I usually pay my own way. Always have.
Whoever picks the venue.
You should pay for my dates. Problem solved.
whoever makes more moeny
The one asking for the date should pay.
First date whoever asks then on split the bill
Dutch always.
Dutch works best
I usually pay );
The guy should.
Why should he?
Gentelmen pay.
Gee thanks
Go dutch
Men should
Why men?
Because they're men. It's the way they were designed by God. To be leaders and take care of and provide. If you don't want to pay on a date, then date a dude.
So by that logic with women being the submissive, does that mean that you must give in to sex if the man were to request for it? I have no belief in god by the way.
Your lack of believe in a god doesn't mean you are right.
I don't care care. Read what I said.
Women decide when men have sex, not the other way around.
Men decide when to pay for dates. Not the other way around.
See the double standard here?
No. Men pay because it is nice.
Men pay because it's nice or they should pay because it's nice?
Men PAY because it is showing he cares.
Unfortunately I don't care about why men pay here. I care about the opinions of everyone on who should pay and whatever reason.
Well I gave you my opinion on it. Pay for her or be gay.
Nah, I won't be paying for any woman, nor will I be gay. I'll pay for my girlfriend however, because that's a girl that I actually care about.
I meant pay for the girl you are with. Did not mean pay for all women.
Correct. I will not pay for the woman that I am with unless I care about her, and I wouldn't care about a woman that I'm trying to get to know. This includes anyone other than close friends or partners.
Lol she's going to be single her entire life and grow old with a bunch of cats
@ShayanMortazavi1998 She'll learn sooner or later.. hopefully.