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call him up and record the call and get him to admit to taking money from your account without your permission.
than tell him that either he pays you back everything he took out or you give the tape to the police and press charges.
next, change your PIN number instantly and never give it out again
I'd say stealing from someone whom you're supposed to care for is about as grievous and base as I could imagine. It's one of those things that there is no justification for. That you would actually deign taking him back makes me quite angry. He must have no respect for you, and you none for yourself.
well I'm sorry to say but boys do this with their mothers wallet and shouldn't do it to their girlfriends
You should tell him that and that he should respect you and ask instead of just take from you
you need to make it clear not to take from others instead of stealing it because he will be able to get it if it is posseble because if it is not posseble you will get in debt (bills and such)
You need to teach him that since no one did before
Um...I doubt that telling him this at his age is going to make a difference to him. He should have learned it by now.
well ill be... Your right!
Find someone who has a job and a conscience to be with. None of us needs any help being broke, and we sure don't need to be robbed by friends when so many strangers would be happy to oblige.
All I want to know is WHY THE F*** DID YOU GIVE YOUR Boyfriend ACCESS TO YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS!? Are you brain dead? You deserve to lose that money with that kind of stupidity. Also sounds like you should have never ended up with this guy to begin with. If he's willing to steal money from his GF, I pretty sure it was quite evident how much of a d*** gobler this is.
Uhm bye? Your answer is useless and I can only assume all your others are just as useless as this one. Hah! What a joke...
That's fine continue to be in denial. You really want some useful advice, break up with him. He's a loser...clearly.
And so are you.. go where you're wanted
lol that makes no sense. What would I be in denial about?
Like what did you think you were going to accomplish? Having the satisfaction of being an a**hole? Congrats..
Haha do you read? You said he was a loser and I was letting you know that you are as well
Maybe hopefully changing and idiot into someone with common sense. Just trying to improve society one person at a time :). I just have no tolerance for idiocy. I make it a point to belittle those I find pathetic because not only can it force them to wake up and chance, its quite fun to watch them squirm. And no I don't feel guilty about punishing those who deserve it.
Hah you are one f***ed up motherf***er... you must live one happy life.. hahhaha
So MrOracle says he agrees with me and basically repeats what I said, and my answer is useless. You're just butt hurt because I used harsh words. At the end of the day we all know the truth and that's that you're a dumb ass. Do us all a favor and go kill yourself so we have one less retard lacking in common sense diluting the gene pool.
You are messed up.. just cause you are sad and upset with your life doesn't mean you should tell people to kill themselves just because they made a mistake. I didn't reallize youve never made a mistake before... go write in your journal psyco
and by the way, MrORacle said he is sorry and hope I get the money back... sorry I didn't see where that is in your answer?
The difference here is the manner in which you have spoken to her. MrORacle agreed that she shouldn't have let her boyfd have access to her accounts. Really, if you wanted to "help" her, as you said, you know that it could have been said in a more effective manner. That's all I'm saying. Instead of upsetting her so much. Something along the line of what MrORacle's approach.
Where your parents nice to you when you f***ed up and broke the rules? Where the police nice to you when you broke the law? Was your teacher nice to you when you disrupted the class? See my point. When you make serious mistakes, you must be treated harshly or you'll never learn your lesson.
You are such an idiot that I'm literally laughing. By the way, it's "were" not "where". Just because you were treated harshly as an innocent kid doesn't mean everyone needs to be to learn a lesson. I'm also sorry to say that you aren't getting anything about my situation if you think I didn't learn anything. Poor guy
I'd break up, If he wanted to money, even his huge male ego shouldn't have keep him from asking you first !
He took the chance to lose you & if he truly loved you, we wouldn't even have think about taking money without asking !
You may love him deeply, but you also have to preserve your dignity !
Hi , am so sorry to hear this. I am currently 7 months pregnant with our fifth child and this morning my so called boyfriend took my bank card and withdrew £300 ! I had hidden my card as he has done it before. I'm now in a right state as that was shopping and kids school clothes money. This is just the tip of the iceberg of how awful he has been to me. Just wanted to say to you that they do it once and will do it again as soon as they find a way 2 .
I wish you all the luck and hope you dump this guy before you end up like me with children , no job and a huge mortgage to pay xx
Sounds like a selfish a**hole who's too lazy to get his ass up and work hard to make his own money to pay off his debt.
Break up with him. Don't be a dumb ass. My thoughts: You are a sincere f***ing idiot if you stay with this jek let alone marry him.
It sucks when you trust someone and that person betrays it. My first suggestion is to look him out of your account. If it is a joint account, open your own and put your funds in that instead. If you do not establish a boundary, he will keep doing this.
You need to decide to keep him, or ditch him.
If you're going to ditch him, then report his fraud. If you're going to keep him, then tell him he has a month to pay you it all back, or it's over.
first take away his access to your account. then sit down and talk to him lay your feelings out there express how disappointed you are and hurt by his actions
Stand up for yourself... Just break up can't be with someone who drains you than grow you.
I mean men claim to be powerful but if you are a lady who doesn't Stand their behavior , or just tell him the truth
sue him take him to court to get your money back because if you don't he won't pay you back even if he says he will he won't. what he did was illegal it's theft and depending on the amount could range from a misdemeanor to a felony keep all your bank statements to show a judge when you take him to court
Change your banking password or tell him to communicate whenever he needs money. Really it sounds like a communication issue.
If you feel betrayed you already know that he's crossed the line and in this case, big time. Cut off the access and see what you can do to get him to pay you back. I would suggest you break up with him.
"I don’t think I will end up breaking up with him over this alone" and "I could never trust him." You know how contradicting this sounds?
For some reason GAG showed me this question. May I know. Are you still together?
This post is old but hopefully you broke up with him and then sued him.
I assume that he was a signer on the bank account or else I would also hope you reported him to the police.
i would say you're a douche bag give me my money and we're done. You can do so much better than some money sucking douche.
Yeah I have to agree with the others. Don't let anyone have access to your bank account...that just should be off limits to everyone except you
break it off. you said you can't trust him so why stay with someone you can't trust? its practically stealing and it is a crime just so you know.