Should I get angry at my boyfriend if he doesn't plan anything on Valentines Day? (Page 3)

[spartan55]

2 months you've been together? I think you're expectations are pretty damn high all things considered, which is fine. You just shouldn't expect his to be in line with yours at every turn.

[Melo123]

Lmao, Valentine's day should be everyday if you're in love then it should feel like that everyday. If you get mad over not getting something on Valentine's day then you really don't love that guy.

[Dargil]

Should I get angry at my girlfriend if she doesn't plan anything on Valentines Day?
These are modern times. Doesn't it go both ways or only when women want it to?

[Countrywildmangirl]

HELLNO.. you shouldn't get mad at your love one just because he doesn't plan valentines day... all it should be.. is spending time together weather it cuddling on the couch , cooking together , having a panic , playing a game , and etc...

[ohshee]

If he doesn't have any plans then u either make them ur self and make him pay or u and your girls go out and have fun

[JimmyQ]

I hate all holidays. They are just scheduled pissing contests. If I want to get you something, I want to do it when I feel like it. Not when your girlfriends decide I should feel like it.

[Primrose21]

How would u know that he really isn't preparing something? Most guys don't inform their partners what they are gonna do or give on valentines.

[soleil2666]

Well, yes, of course - if you have to ask us how to fabricate your feelings you are not being very truthful to being with.
This is, in a nutshell, a question of how entitled you are supposed to be (to self-respect)

[J2ohhhhh]

Call me old-fashioned, but I wouldn't give a fuck about Valentine's day in a two months relationship.

[worldscolide]

I'm not doing anything with my wife on Friday either.. I'm working unfortunately.. But the following day you better believe I got something planned.

[worldscolide]

What I mean is, its the day he is getting his dream. And you're only two months into the relationship.. Sure I'd be a bit sad, I hope he does something small at least even if it's a day late

[AshleyBenedith]

True its the thought that counts especially bec the rlship is new ^^

[worldscolide]

I like your updates, I'm glad he did something for you..

[AshleyBenedith]

Thank you :)!

[DiscomfortZone]

Like you said, he's mature. Mature people don't feel the need to waste money and go through trouble for the sake of a made up day aimed solely at money.

[Einsteinagogo]

No as it's a gimmick why should you only get spoiled one day a week maybe two with your birthday and Christmas and a anniversary so four days a year you should be spoilt 365 days a year and on a leap year you can spoil him lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

My husband could give a shi# about Valentine's Day. Lol

[revanthp915]

Don't be mad it's ok if he doesn't like stuff
It doesn't mean he don't love you right

Love is not about just a day it's about staying you life and being there for him matters the most

[stormbreaker06]

Yes cuz you are a girl. And getting angry is what girls do.

[AshleyBenedith]

lol ^^

[RHK36]

You're only 2 months in and it's a bs holiday. You already know what to expect yet still want to get angry? Good luck.

[chriscdi]

no but i doubt he will leave you empty handed on valentines day, and y'all discuss valentines day? thats suppose to be a surprise thing isn't it 😂

[Biancatsumi1991]

Valentines day is just a normal day. You can make any day romantic if u want to. Don’t get mad at him if he won’t celebrate it with you.

[mikemassage]

Not sure. If you always do the planning, then maybe.
Talk about it. Going out on that day is always crazy rushed to many people.
Plan on Saturday night. And enjoy Friday night at home.

[Drumlin2001]

Why dont you plan something? Why you expect him to do the heavy lifting if you know he's busy?