- Yes that is strange and very suspiciousVote A
- Nope I don't find it suspiciousVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, I find it strange that he's not a joiner, but his reasons of why he's not into social media would be the deciding factor.
Some guys are reserved & don't see the point in it.
Some don't have enough friends/haven't met enough people to even build a friend's list so they don't bother.
Some had it but deleted it cause of crazy exes
Some guys just aren't good with computers & the websites lol!
I consider myself a introvert, but my Aquarius nature has created a large social setting for me. I like to know what's going on, even if I'm not going to participate.
It's not like he has to go hardcore & have an account on every website, but at least facebook.0
Most Helpful Guy
If someone finds that weird, consider for a moment that you might be dating someone that grew up before Web 2.0, when all of us were told as kids that ANY personal information on the web was hacker-bait, pure and simple.
Also consider that maybe social media isn't all its cracked up to be, that it emotionally stunted a generation of men and women into believing that anonymous people from around the globe actually care about your posts/insights/opinions/shared-interests.
Social media's a mixed bag, y'all.5