My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year anf a few months now.. My friend recently saw his profile on Tinder. He also sent me a screangrab and i saw the tinder notification in the left corner of his screan shot. He says he'll never cheat on me yet he won't put any fotos of us on his fb or even our in a relationship status. Says he doesn't want a "Facebook relationship"... After so long i feel like an idiot :( am i over reacting?
Most Helpful Guy
people are weird about facebook is girls I'm friends with and have know for a couple years and isn't even a single picture of us even as just friends at bar and we talk all the time. but being your actually dating it seems weird he won't put anything up. its also odd he's on tinder , that doesn't sound like he is up to good things there0
Most Helpful Girl
I can't think of any 'innocent' reason to have a Tinder account when in a relationship. I don't think you're overreacting. I would be upset too if I were in your situation. Having that account does not mean he has cheated on you, however, I do believe he may have thought about it and being on Tinder would make it easy for some people to cheat. You should definitely confront him about this and figure out what's going on. You also may not be able to trust him after this which will put a lot of strain on the relationship. It's a terrible situation to be in but, you have to decide what's best for you here. If you can't trust the person you're with, then there's really no reason to be in a relationship.2